He’s buying the alcohol but should I hangout with him?

[Anonymous]

My friend says the stupidest shit. I’m a feminist but he’s sexist as hell and says the most ignorant things regarding the sexes, race things, homophobic, etc. I have no idea why I’m even friends with him.

I mean yeah he’s my ex but I was trying to be a good tolerant person but it’s hard.

[wheist9095]

You don't have to tolerate intolerance, if he's being a dick telling me he's a dick and then stop hanging out with him. You're an adult, you can buy your own alcohol

[AndrésC64]

No. I had a friend like that once and I'm so glad to be rid of him. There's no reason to tolerate the intolerant.

[Paul_in_Indy]

It seems pretty clear that you can’t stand him. …but he’s buying the alcohol, so you hang out with him! If you ever wonder why it is so easy to score with girls when you are buying the drinks, this is why. It’s not they like us, and the booze overcomes their inhibitions. The alcohol is doing all the work.

[Asker]

Actually, if you read the details, you’ll know he’s my ex and I’ve known him a while. To be specific, He’s been my friend for 8 years now so your little claim isn’t true. And score? Score what? His drinks? Pretty sure that’ll be me scoring not him

[Paul_in_Indy]

You said he was your ex. You also said you don’t like him (not in so many words, but it is clear).
I’m not making a claim. I’m responding to your statement. If you like him, then, of course, you should hang out with him. If he disgusts you, then you should find another way to get drinks—instead of letting him try to sleep with you via alcohol.

What, exactly, is it that you are trying to ask, if not that?

[Asker]

I’m not sleeping with him. We’re only hanging out and drinking a little. I’m not stupid. He may have a messed up mentality regarding things but he isn’t a rapist or anything.

[Paul_in_Indy]

You “asked the guys.” I’m telling you what I know as a guy. You are deceiving yourself if you think he doesn’t want to sleep with you.

[Asker]

He can want all he want. Doesn’t mean anything to me. He’s just my friend now

[Paul_in_Indy]

you are using his sexual attraction to you to get free booze. That’s the question you asked: should you leverage his continued attraction for free alcohol. It doesn’t seem like you want to hear anyone’s response. Why don’t you go ahead and tell us what you’re thinking? We’d be interested in knowing whether it’s exchange is working out OK for you.

[Asker]

We are friends hanging out. He offered to buy to booze. I asked. But if it matters that much maybe I’ll demand to buy half of it

[ochitougly]

You should ask you self why you are hanging out with such a person. Is it because you feel you can change him? Is it because a part of you believes the same things as he does. There is nothing wrong with that you just have to be conscious why it is that you still stick around some like that.

[Asker]

I’m not that sort of person. I believe people like him are lost causes. I don’t try to change anyone who’s on the wrong side of history. And if I’m feminist, no way I consciously believe anything he says. I don’t even like him as a person but I do separate him from his beliefs. Obviously that’s a bad idea because he pisses me off sometimes

[ochitougly]

One time I stayed friends with a girl that my ex boyfriend had sex with wile we where together. She was really nice to me, she confessed it to me (We weren’t friends when it happened) and I forgave her because I really didn’t care about that guy in the end. Then I asked my self why do I spend time with someone that doesn’t have the same values as me. I could be spending time on my other friends that are on my level by level I mean same values etc. Honestly when I tossed out all those type of people of my life that weren’t aligned to who I am and wanted to become I made room for new amazing people in my life

[Asker]

That makes loads of sense. I guess it’s also because despite how messed up his mentality is regarding politics, he’s a loyal person. I’ve known him for years and he’s always been there physically sort of I guess. It’s hard to explain but I understand what you mean

[Anonymous]

You lost any credibility when you felt the need to say you are a feminist. I will not judge him without hearing his side of the story.

[Asker]

Well it’s obvious you’re anti women’s right so you definitely lost credibility

[Opinion Owner]

Feminism used to be about women's rights, but hasn't been for many years. It's now about female privilege and tearing men down at every opportunity. You claim to be anti-sexist but you support feminism? You're a hypocrite.

[Asker]

It’s so funny you’re a woman yet anti women’s rights. How pathetic lol. Seek help k

[Opinion Owner]

Nope, I'm not anti women's rights at all. We have rights and that's great. Tell me exactly what rights we women are lacking that men have. Be specific. And equally important, what is feminism doing to help? The only thing feminism does is make women hate men and men hate women, undermine respect for women and make us look like a bunch of crybabies.

[Asker]

A pro woman just knows. I wouldn’t have to educate her on what’s already obvious. You’re obviously just a delusional Trumptard not worth talking to.

[Opinion Owner]

"It's obvious". What an intelligent argument. Lmao

Here's an idea you might want to consider someday... try thinking for yourself. You'd be surprised how much better your life can be when your eyes and mind are actually open.

[Asker]

Way to manipulate me by pretending I’m not thinking for myself. Nice try though

[Anonymous]

No, I'm surprised he'd hang out with you but then a pretty face can cover for the plans of the KAM movement

[Asker]

So because I am anti sexist and he’s sexist, HE’S the one that shouldn’t be hanging out with ME? You’re hilarious and clearly psychotic

Seek help

[Opinion Owner]

Don't blame me blame your feminist paymasters for the KAM movement, that's kill all men in case you wondered

[Asker]

And I’m pretty sure you’re apart of the RAW movement, that’s rape all women which I’m sure you know

[Opinion Owner]

Nah I'm part of the anti breeding movement, sexual relations of hetero-normative nature are forbidden and I'm not interested in sex whatsoever or the foibles of human life because not breeding alone only aims to prevent future extreme population but this world is already very overpopulated and needs a vast clearout

[Asker]

And you’re also apart of anti women movements like RAW. Your response to my very innocent question made that super obvious

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not anti-woman, I'm a self loathing bastard with a hatred for humanity as a whole so I'm anti-human like you know Russia has so many nukes apparently well start using them then prove you have the balls Vladdy boy you know it makes sense with the rampant unchecked overpopulation that we face

[Asker]

You are anti women. No need to deny it

[Opinion Owner]

You've chosen not to listen to me but to your paymasters so I believe d you good luck on your mission to kill all men, won't kill me I'm doing it my way when the end times come

[Asker]

My question was about my sexist friend, you were offended by that. So that’s what I focused on

[Avicenna]

Then don't hang out with him

[007kingifrit]

are the things he is saying... true?