This guy who I asked out a couple back said that he's not intimidated when a girl asks him out. That, instead, he perceives her as confident. A guy associate said the same thing to me. He told me how attractive it is! What are your povs?
Yes it's very flattering, especially since I tend to feel like women are not as enthusiastic about guys as guys are about women. Every time I see those videos on YT with women making the first move, it's does feel nice to be proven wrong.
Of course. You don't have to wit for a guy to make the first move all the time. If you like the guy, go for it.
As a woman, I say YES! I always like making the first moves on the guys I like. It’s funny to get their reactions. My favorite ex, and my meh ex had a great reaction, but my others pity dated me because of it, so… 😅
The results is pretty much the exact opposite of what I expected lol. I thought that this would be something most guys would be strongly against 😂😶
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If I was already attracted to her it would be a dream come true and I would feel like I won the lottery but why do I get the feeling women like this will forever be in the extreme minority
It never happened to me if it had I would have liked it
As a guy with crippling social anxiety. I have a very hard time to talk to people, and it's even more difficult if it's someone I'm interested in. (I'm also horrible at picking up on hints)
So when a girl asks me out, it's such a relief for me.
They aren't very good at doing so because it's never been in their nature to do so in the first place. Due to this it can be very awkward and as a result... a turn off. As a man, when you approach a woman, you understand certain cues, you consider her body language, proximity, her friends, environment, and much more.
I was really shy when I was younger so it would have been nice to get a little encouragement.
Yes, yes and yes. I love a confident woman. It's a good thing!
It's so rare I honestly don't know how to react to it.
u sure thing... that's how I ended up with three or my four girlfriends I have ever had, lol
She definitely gets my attention and her boldness makes a great impression
I very much appreciate when that happens. It's all a two way street so either party should make the move if they want to.
Depends on who's doing it and how she's going about it.
I voted Yes.
But I also have a counter-offer: What if she just said "I like you"? And then I could ask her out?
I absolutely love it. Girls should do that way more often. manage your depression and anxiety and drop the gender roles.
I am always flattered and excited when this happens. Really makes me happy!
Never happened, but it sounds cool.
This poll needs to be spread to all women.
You falsely accuse us of crimes when we approach, so now you have to make the moves.
Unless they're into super submissive girls they'll be happy
Sure, but it seldom happens.
Yes it's good to have a woman initiates dates. I love it when a woman initiates sex.
Yes.
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