Why don't men understand a woman's boobs shrink when she looses weight?

[Dawnlind92]

I went from D cups to As with a 60 lb weight loss.

I have had men contact me from when I was fat who talk about my big boobs. I have to try so hard to educate them in the fact that many bra size has shrunken dramatically with my weight loss!

Other guys who met me after my weight loss laugh when I tell them I was once an ample breasted woman!

[MrOracle]

Most men understand this just fine in the abstract, but it can be tougher to apply that to someone you know who you remember a certain way.

Most men don't want the women they know and like to change - so that creates something of a mental block, even when the change is positive.

[Dawnlind92]

I think your right... the guy I was referring to initially encouraged me to loose weight but liked my formerly bigger chest which was the first thing to go...

[Berethor]

Yea boobs are made of fat, having a small boobs that the prize that you pay for losing weight.

[Dawnlind92]

Agreed. It makes me sad and angry. I lose weight to look more attractive and everyone agrees I look better however the chest situation is somewhat unusual...

[FilmGuy93]

Men understand that, it's just disappointing to see a woman's boobs shrink lmao

[Dawnlind92]

Disappointing for us As well. Some girls shrink very little. I personally went all the way from a 36D down to a 32B with a 50 lb loss.

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah... 50 pounds is a lot of you to lose; it had to come from somewhere. And then every once in a while you'll come across some chick that's naturally rail thin with huge cans. 28 Band size, a size 0 dress looks loose on her, but she's got perky natural I-cups like her body has stripped every fat cell from the rest of her body and stored it all on her chest. Genetics are a bitch, man...

[Dawnlind92]

Lol I know what your talking about exactly!
Interesting you understand band size. Lots of guys talk about skinny girls having 40DD etc which is beyond innacurate.

My boyfriend used to brag about being a bra fitting expert but always got it wrong 😂

[FilmGuy93]

Lol poor guy! I think the sister sizing is what trips a lot of guys up. The problem is that a sister size isn't as good as the right size. A woman with a 28I bra size isn't going to get as good support from 30H bras, and that support will only get worse, the further she gets from 28I

[Dawnlind92]

Lmfao my cousin was wearing a 36B and she was very skinny almost underweight. Needed like a 28E or something don't really remember but like this r hard to find

[Iron_Man]

I understand both styles for women gaining weight and losing weight it affects the Breast size

[Dawnlind92]

The guy I'm dating told me he believed a woman at an average weight could go through like a starvation to which point she's severely malnourished and almost dead and her breasts will remain the exact same

[Iron_Man]

I doubt that

[Dawnlind92]

Wish u were right.
Same guy believes I can gain 200 lbs and still remain an A cup!

[Iron_Man]

I am right

[Ill_made_Knight]

Because they do not think about things they do not think about.
Having 3 older sisters makes me think that stuff like this should be common sense... apparently not

[MCheetah]

They don't shrink that much though. Only about a cup size for every fifty pounds.

[Dawnlind92]

Everyone is different... in my case my bust is first to shrink! I went from D's to As with a 60 lb loss.

[MCheetah]

That's not normal.

[Dawnlind92]

I agree. I spent years pondering why my bust size freakishly shrunk so dramatically.

A doctor told me I simply stored a lot of weight in the bust area... The only woman I can think who had breasts shrink that much would be my mom

I remember a man I dated before I lost weight got in touch with me after I'd lost weight

He congratulated me (we were facetiming) but then mentioned my formerly large breasts as he did not realize they were gone!

I argued and he didn't believe me till he made me show him and was shocked.

[PeteBy]

Yeah I've noticed this with my partner. She exercises, boobs get smaller and vice versa.

[AngelOfLight258]

Because they think boobs are soft magic balls when they're basically lobes of fat with a little bit of milk producing tissue inside.

[convo_king89]

I know since boobs are fat, but some guys want a skinny body and big boobs

[Dawnlind92]

Lots can't have it both ways

[User3191989]

Because most people forget that boobs are just essentially, blobs of fat

[dolemite89]

we do understand it, it’s coping with it that’s a problem for us 🤣

[FunkyMonkee]

I can dig it but, they CAN be grown back!

[Dawnlind92]

How? Only with weight gain and who wants that? I went from D's to very small Bs or even As and I dare you to tell me how to get them to grow back

[FunkyMonkee]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AVOD-EI8-so
And there's lots more where that came from. Also go to BreastNexus. com. There's even a section there for guys that want to grow their tits and one got all the way up to H cups!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I'm aware of that

[Dawnlind92]

If sucks. It's like a double edged sword

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Dawnlind92 Yes it does. I got man saggy from a 100 lb plus weight-loss

[Zolly99999]

I knew that.

[Dawnlind92]

That's awesome but I just ponder why do many self proclaimed "boob men" fail to realize most women's breasts shrink with weight-loss. In other words her bra size may become much smaller alongside the rest of her body

I remember reconnecting with a guy prior to losing weight, I obviously didn't share any pics of my 50 lb weight loss other than of my face.

I recall saying to him "I miss my big boobs" and the same idiot saying "you have amazing big boobs don't worry." I tried to argue with him my ample D's had become As...

He was such an idiot he saw breast size as similar to shoe size... even when a person loses weight it doesn't change...

[Zolly99999]

Wow... just wow. Some people are dumb.
I guess common sense isn't so common 🙄

[EaterPeter]

I understand.

[Bigjake1019]

I do