What should I do when he keep telling me to take a break again and again to continue to focus on our goals for the future? Should I stop bother him?

[Anonymous]

[PrettyPriya]

Take a break from? A relationship? Friendship? A little context would be helpful. For now, I will work under the assumption you mean a break from a relationship.

Im guessing, considering you are under the age of 18 that he means so you can focus on studies and getting into a good university. That is what I would say it means.

Sounds like he is just prioritizing education and other things important to younger people than a relationship. That is smart. While you both have more than enough time to have a relationship, school is something you don’t want to put off.

I think you should respect his wishes and take a break (assuming you mean from dating) and focus on the things that are important at your age, like family, friends and a good education. You will thank yourself (and him) for focusing on those things. Plenty of time for daring and guys once you have the schooling out of the way and sorted. Best of luck to you both.

[Asker]

Yeah thanks a lot this is what i thought to myself to. Since we love eachother we also trust one another. I trust him during this break and he trust me too. In fact, i got overthinking often. All i know is that i needed him, i need to hear the voice of a person whom i love and i care to eventho he told me to be in our own pathway for awhile. I couldn't stop wondering how he is in every single time. It seems like I'm the only one who's still waiting to be texted. I know I'm such an ego thinking like this but yeah as his lover , sometimes it makes me think that he don't miss me. It made me suffer a lot and he got no idea any of this.

[PrettyPriya]

I think you are likely correct that you are somewhat overthinking it. That is easy to do to be honest. Don’t be so hard on yourself for overthinking things.

I’m guessing he may just need to slow things down for whatever life is giving him right now. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t miss you still.

Just means he has to sort out whatever is causing him stress. Best let him do that. Your relationship will be better off for it in the end.

[Asker]

Aw thanks miss! I feel better and grow positivity now

[PrettyPriya]

You are most welcome! Take care and enjoy the upcoming weekend! 🙂

[Pinay_ako]

You’re only a kid! Focus on growing up first and not let boys take over your life. There’s so much life ahead of you.

[Asker]

Yes maam. He's my first love, i met him by an accident. My grade went improve ever since he appeared in my life. He makes me want to grow and fight for real goals. I was motivated by a boy whose really great and soft spoken. He was there through my ups and downs. He's the one who listen most of my suffers. I also did the same way as he does. In conclusion, we want to grow together and the best for our future.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes I understand. I was once your age too and met a boy whom I thought will be my forever… but there’s so much out there.

[Guy13]

It seems like you are forcing it⁉️

[Guy13]

And he is reacting to it by distancing himself. Would you distance yourself if you were really interested and aching for him⁉️ Understand what I’m saying ⁉️

[Asker]

I don't think so, he asked me first if it's okay that he distance himself to be a better man for his future partner that will live with him until his last breath. He said want to provide his own future family very well.

[Guy13]

Alright as you are intimately involved !!!

[LazerBean]

You should dump him for good.

[Iron_Man]

He will have to chase you now

[AdansChelsea]

Of course