I hope I wouldn't appear cringe if I do this?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy I dated 4 months ago, things ended between us on a bad note due to some misunderstanding right after 3-4 days of our first date. Although we did not block each other and still have each other's numbers saved.. So in July, on the next day of my birthday, I uploaded my pictures and he wished me (he did not remember my birthday, he saw the status and then wished).. Now the thing is, it's his birthday day after tomorrow, and I remember it.. He told me once.. Should I wish him? Will he not think that I'm so obsessed with him that I remember his birthday even now?

(P. S-Tbh, I am still obsessed with him🥲)

[RosieMelts]

It ended bad that quickly?

All you’re obsessed with is his looks and him as a full blooded male wouldn’t mind fucking your good looks.

Is there any soul connection? Nope 😕👎

People remember what’s important to them. Especially new couples and ex couples however long that had dated lol

Up to you sis but you sending that would be boosting his ego and hurting a part of you.

Dont do it to yourself. You feel in control when you do send but reverse the psychology on yourself

and take control to not send. It’ll only get easier with time. True story. 💕✨

[Anonymous]

Don’t wish him a happy birthday and let him go, girl. That’s you finding reasons to reach out or hang on, when he’s giving you no genuine reasons to do so now. You’re obsessed because you’ve over-romanticized that few months you dated and hope for something in the future when you have nothing positive to work with right now, present time and that’s what matters most. Time to move on.

[SpicedPooch1240]

I would say wish him a happy birthday. Even if he is no longer a potential partner you can still do that small nicety. He did wish you a happy birthday after all.

[LazerBean]

If it doesn't just pop up on your FB then definitely don't do it.