Girls, How can you call masculinity toxic or bad when you don’t even understand men?

[TonightYouu]

[whereismyjohnny]

Someone watched too many Tate videos…

[Anonymous]

there’s a huge difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity. no one is calling masculinity bad, they’re calling toxic masculinity bad. you’re misunderstanding it.

[TonightYouu]

You know how women were protesting roe and they were saying no uterus no opinions why were they saying that?

[TonightYouu]

A lot of what women call toxic masculinity is just men exercising their masculinity

[Opinion Owner]

Because it’s true. They’re mad and upset that the right to make choices regarding their own body has been taken away.

And no, it’s a very different thing. Toxic masculinity includes abusers, emotional abuses, gaslighters and many more negative traits. Completely different to masculinity.

[TonightYouu]

But everything you’ve named isn’t exclusive to gender it not a man woman thing people are individuals anyone can be a POS or an asshole it’s actually really sexist to make those traits synonymous with masculinity when women are capable of doing exactly the same for you to say that you would either have to Hate men or Not understand us

[Opinion Owner]

Toxic masculinity involves cultural pressures for men to behave in a certain way. And it's likely this affects all boys and men in some fashion. Toxic masculinity refers to the notion that some people's idea of “manliness” perpetuates domination, homophobia, and aggression. It’s not sexist it’s literally just facts.

[Opinion Owner]

Andrew Tate for example is the literal definition of toxic masculinity.

[Opinion Owner]

Now other men and boys will look up to that guy and think that in order to be a real ‘man’ they have to have those toxic traits he’s constantly showing off.

[TonightYouu]

Then why isn’t there a woman teaching boys to be men
That’s like a rabbit teaching a tiger cub to be a tiger
wouldn’t it be best for a boy to learn those things from a man
I get that you women may not like it but you need to stay in your place you’re not a man you’re not a male you’re not a boy

For a woman to think that masculinity is toxic you would have to believe that men and women are and can be equals

[TonightYouu]

Do you believe men and women are equals?

[Opinion Owner]

Ya know what, educate yourself at this point.

[TonightYouu]

That’s a yes

[TonightYouu]

You can’t call something you don’t understand toxic but that a usual response people fear what they can’t comprehend

[Opinion Owner]

No I don’t believe men and women are equals.

[Opinion Owner]

And yes, I can and I will and I just did. Toxic masculinity does exist and you’re living in delusion trying to convince yourself that it doesn’t.

[Opinion Owner]

So take your own advice, you’ll never experience how terrifying it is from a woman’s point of view either.

[TonightYouu]

What about toxic femininity? Because everything you’ve named and said are things that one male or female can do what about the abuse that occurs to men or are you only defending one side of the aisle

Men are abused everyday and the only thing worse than the women who do this to someone’s son , father , brother , uncle etc. Are the cowardly women who turn a blind eye to it

[Opinion Owner]

Do me a favour and do some research on toxic masculinity because it’s very clear you have no idea what it is and it’s exhausting trying to talk to someone who has no idea what I’m talking about

[TonightYouu]

What is masculinity

[TonightYouu]

And I’m a man I know exactly what you’re talking about

[TonightYouu]

I just find it so amusing that people who have no idea what it’s like to be a man and never will have the audacity to call masculinity toxic

[Opinion Owner]

👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[Opinion Owner]

You’re just proving your ignorance because you have no clue what you’re talking about and you refuse to listen to someone who is trying to correct you. So I’m done here. Have a great day.

[TonightYouu]

I don't know would’ve been just fine also 🙄