Girls, do you understand what it means to decenter men?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yes, and I have done it

Yes, and I’m trying to do it

Yes, but I’m not going to do it

No, I don’t know what that means

[valentina4eva]

i have never heard of the term, but curious now🧐🧐

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

In short, it means not considering a man's feelings as more important than your own. That doesn't mean men's feelings don't matter, it just means women's feelings do not come as a secondary consideration to that.

I. e. - a man does something that upsets you. Instead of deciding not to broach the topic because then he may be upset, you bring it up and have a discussion about it. Your feelings are considered and weighed, as are his. Both parties take responsibility for their own feelings and what needs to be done to address those feelings, rather than the woman addressing his feelings for him and then tacking hers on only if they don't conflict with the primary objective of making him feel better.

[valentina4eva]

ohh okie!! that does make sense in words🤔 i do often think like this but then just have trouble putting it into practice😅😅

[Francine_Roosevelt]

@valentina4eva Have you tried locking them in a slave cage and depriving them of self pleasure?

[EmmaMary]

@cupcakethedestroyer

I've never even heard of this expression.