And oversexualising you even if you aren't being sexual at all?
I realized that a guy can act the former with me and yet the latter with anoher girl... AND visa versa.
I used to judge guys like oh he's a total pervert but it seems like how a man acts varies depending on the connection he has or feels towards each woman individually and idont even think its based on anything she does or anything she's wearing. Like i said i dont dress sexy yet one guy was oversexualising me and couldnt just be friendshiplike. Yet another guy was totally my friend yet i watched him have that oversexualising relationship with another girl at work.
It opened my eyes. People aren't one dimensional and you never know how a man will see you. And how he sees you has NOTHING to do with what you wear or how you act.