Did you realize you can connect with certain men on a friendship level and with others its like the guy can't stop making everything sexual?

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And oversexualising you even if you aren't being sexual at all?

I realized that a guy can act the former with me and yet the latter with anoher girl... AND visa versa.

I used to judge guys like oh he's a total pervert but it seems like how a man acts varies depending on the connection he has or feels towards each woman individually and idont even think its based on anything she does or anything she's wearing. Like i said i dont dress sexy yet one guy was oversexualising me and couldnt just be friendshiplike. Yet another guy was totally my friend yet i watched him have that oversexualising relationship with another girl at work.

It opened my eyes. People aren't one dimensional and you never know how a man will see you. And how he sees you has NOTHING to do with what you wear or how you act.

Did you realize you can connect with certain men on a friendship level and with others its like the guy can't stop making everything sexual?
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