Why do some guys do certain things to you sexually that makes you feel like you two are a couple just for them to still claim they’re single?

[Anonymous]

And by sexually I mean they do things sexually that only a boyfriend would do to his girlfriend and not some random he just messes around with. At least from my point of view, I see it that way. He seems to not though.

[Pohjolan]

There isn't any rules to what kind of sex one can has in a hookup or as friends with benefits:s or in a relationship.

It seems that you guys didn't have the talk about what kind of a arrangement you have.

If he has not verbally agreed to being in a exclusive relationship then he is free to fuck other people.

Assumption is the mother of screwups.

[spartan55]

So, in other words, he has to see it your way. I didn't know certain things were supposed to only be for girlfriends sexually... that's about ridiculous. You are the one unable to handle it, but if course, you blame him.

[7Phoenix7]

Don't have sex or do sexual things with him unless you guys are officially together. Or unless you agreed to be sexual without a relationship 🙂. Otherwise they will take what you give them

[B4852]

Truth in this.

[graacceey]

@B4852 Yes, it’s a lot to truth in what she said plus it’s just sex at the end of day, at least to him obviously if you feel like he went above and beyond sexually and still doesn’t claim you as his girlfriend. The same thing he has done to you sexually he more than likely has done to plenty of other girls as well thus, it’s only significant to you.

[B4852]

Most likely so.

[Bratsondanielle]

He sees it as a one night stand / fuckbuddies maybe?

[TheSpaceGnome]

I dunno, I don't do that.

If I do something sexual with someone, it's because I intend to keep her.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because In those moments they feel a connection but after they would rather feel free than be committed to one person. Don’t you feel connected in moments of intimacy?

[KrakenAttackin]

"Sexual things only a boyfriend would do"? Like what? If anything a couple are more reserved than a fuck buddy.

[Asker]

Well let’s say a guy is giving a girl oral but not just the old fashioned way. Let’s say he has her “sit on his face” as they say now and allows her to “finish” on his face as well. That doesn’t seem like something a guy would just do with a regular hookup but I could be wrong.

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker you are wrong.

[spartan55]

@asker
Second that, completely wrong.

[Bethany22]

I hate it when they do that

[spartan55]

Do what? It's sex ffs. Is their a 'do' and 'don't' list? That's absurd.

[In_Trance]

You answered your own question