Why would he talk about other girls?

[Anonymous]

I have a crush on this dude but I don't think he knows. We go to different colleges and last night he said why does all the girls at his school either have a high body count or is a wh**e. And of course I got defensive and said why would you even mess with girls like that anyways and he just smiled real big and didn't answer my question.

[Cynicaldreamer]

"And of course I got defensive and said why would you even mess with girls like that anyways and he just smiled real big and didn't answer my question." Because he probably knows you like him, or he likes you... and he's trying to egg you on, get you jealous, or see how you react to him talking about other women.

In other words, why not ask him how he feels about YOU and see what he says? He might surprise you :)

You can even be coy about it such as, "Well if you don't like the girls you go to school with, why not try someone closer?" And see what he says

[FilmGuy93]

Ask him, or better yet, avoid interacting with men who make you wonder what he means when he opens his mouth. There's no way anyone here could possibly know what's going through his mind.