Why does he joke about being with other girls?

[Anonymous]

I called my boyfriend on my lunch break today and lost connection. I immediately called him back and he seemed pissed bc I “hung up on him”. I get home from work to my him leaving to go play hockey. I asked if I could come and he said “no, you hung up on me fuck you. How am I supposed to get bitches if you’re there?” Then he left and returned about a min later because he forgot something. Then he’s like “something wrong buddy?” I was like “nah, you wanna fuck other bitches? Go ahead” and he told me it was a joke. OH MY GOD THATS HILARIOUS HAHAHHAHAHAHAHA. What a comedian. I’m dead.
He says snarky shit like this all the time & gets upset with me when I don’t take it lightly. Why does he say things like this? To make me upset? It can’t actually be to make me laugh. I know other girls that do laugh it off, but at this point I’m tired of it.

[spartan55]

Man, what an asshole. Why are you with him again? You have let him know that saying those nasty things to you won't get him any consequences.

[SashaAMB]

This is a subtle manipulation tactic to make you insecure. He is showing you who he is and it is not a good look...

[Asker]

Well it’s working. I’ve told him countless times these things upset me and he doesn’t seem to care which upsets me even more. Instead, he tells me I’m being dramatic/crazy because I took it too personally.

[SashaAMB]

Read about NPD.

[SavageGirl101]

y'all really let men talk to y'all like that? Tf is wrong with y'all