Husband said off-handed comment that really disturbed me. Do you consider this a red flag?

[Anonymous]

After watching Game of Thrones I said "I wonder if they're gonna make the 15 year old bang the king. That would be really metal." He said "It would be. I would really enjoy seeing that."

He basically said he would enjoy watching a 60 year old man bang a 15 year old.

[Anonymous]

It’s definitely kind of creepy to say that.

The ONLY defensible thing I could even remotely think is that he was agreeing with you that it would be an interesting/dramatic direction for the show to take things IF they did that. It may not necessarily mean that he personally would enjoy seeing that, more, “yeah it’d be crazy if they did that in the show.” 🤷‍♂️ And he just worded it wrong.

Or he could just be a hidden creeper who gets off on seeing sick stuff like that. You know your man better than we do, but it would definitely make me wonder about him.

[spartan55]

Ffs really? You made a joke and he followed suit... red 🚩 flag for you being incredibly uptight.

[FallonSamuels]

That’s disturbing and a cause for concern. It’s 100% a red flag. Please have a conversation with him regarding that comment and let him know it made you feel

[spartan55]

But it's not a red 🚩flag that she suggested it in the first place?

[WhitneySnow]

That is kind of a red flag him saying that but GoT has a lot of that stuff in it. You get used to it.

[supercutebutt]

Red flag. If he said "it would really be fire," it would be acceptable. "Metal"? WTF?

[spartan55]

Uh... SHE said it was metal...

[supercutebutt]

uh... and HE agreed with her. The consensus in the room was sex with a man and teen "would be really metal."

[supercutebutt]

... and anyhow, they probably meant "meta" which is some recent nonsensical bullshit people say.

[spartan55]

So she gets a total pass even though she brought it up originally?

[supercutebutt]

@spartan55 She does not get a pass.

[FilmGuy93]

If an offhanded joke is all it takes to throw you for a loop, your relationship might be moving too quickly.

[Jamie05rhs]

YOU suggested it, retard!! 🤦

Gahd... You women and your games.

[msc545]

You said the same thing. I would not take it seriously at all.

[Anonymous]

Wtf GET RID OF HIM NOW!!! He's a fucking pedophiler a kiddie fucker get rid of him for your own good before you have problems down the road

[Guy13]

Ever a Porn watcher by chance ⁉️

[Asker]

He used to be

[Guy13]

Porn and Body Counting rewires your brain. There was a neurological medical journal study about it. They worked it out into a short book called HOOKED. Amazon/Kindle. Research project had journal title.

Hooked: ...

[msc545]

What book - can't find it. What research study in what journal?

[Guy13]

@msc545 it’s not hard. It came up under Hooked: for me BUT go to Amazon and put in Hooked:The Brain 🧠 Science and you should be good.
The rewire is the same for porn, body counters, and they are looking at Abortionists now in other projects.

[dustybiker]

Does he usually have dry humor?