Why is it so hard to get men to invite their friend for a 3sum?

[LexiSuxx]

So irritated I fell for it AGAIN, but this guy I’ve been hooking up with for a while keeps saying he will bring a friend for a 3 way and I don’t believe he even asked.

always same story his friend just disappeared all the sudden when he shows up

BUT

I’ve been able to find a girlfriend of mine 2X now!

all I do is send a text with his pic and I’m like hey would you want to have a 3 sum with this guy lol, pretty simple.

he’s an attractive guy but it’s soooo annoying. I’ve had a problem getting guys I’ve dated to also but yet they want one.

so what’s up do guys not talk about this kinda thing with their friends or they scared to ask for some reason lol?

im on strike from now on lol it’s not fair.

[ohsheeT]

A lot of guys are insecure first of all they really don't want to share their girlfriend with another guy because of they're afraid that the guy will make love better than he does and they're afraid that he'll lose the girl to the guy they're also afraid that the guy has a bigger dick than he does so there's no confidence all the way around but of course to be selfish if you were to bring a girl in he would definitely go for that because then he does not have to think or to worry about anything and that just shows you how selfish men are you would think that he would be more concerned about pleasing that woman then knowing that you're with him but afraid to losing you to a guy I think the whole thing selfish and there's ways to go about having a threesome or even faking having a threesome with a blindfold and you would never know the difference

[Effably]

Do guys (normally) talk about having threesomes including our friends? No. Not at all. Throughout most male friendships this is unlikely to even come up as a joke once in 10 years.

Guys are generally a lot less sharing when it comes to sex. We normally will confine retelling a hook-up or alike to a simple good, bad or other similar word. There may be a sentence if anything really stood out. Friends are expected to react with one or two sentences and then we move on. Sexually guys are not as open.

[dustybiker]

Don’t they have threesome sites/apps for this sort of hook-up? Men will more likely chicken out than woman. Much more sensitive.

[Chazmatazz269]

Crossing over from fantasy to reality has consequences, and they’re not always good. Experienced swingers generally agree that the new partners in threesomes, foursomes and moresomes should be strangers if you’re still experimenting. Otherwise developing feelings and natural comparisons could be more hurtful. There are sites that can help you find both experienced swingers and new playmates.
I don’t know a lot of guys whose fantasies include mfm, let alone mmf. There’s still a lot of stigma surrounding bi and bi-curious men. So, no, “straight” guys don’t go around talking about that stuff with friends. There are also natural insecurities at play. Most men have been dumped at least once for another guy. If he’s decided you’ve got long term potential, he definitely doesn’t want to introduce you to his replacement! Ell oh ell!
If group sex is your thing, use the sites. You’ll more of what you want with less of what you don’t.

[Anonymous]

Because no man wants his balls touching another man’s balls. Other reasons could be because he doesn’t want to share you w another dude. Maybe his bro might out perform him, you may like it more. There’s a lot of reasons.

[FilmGuy93]

He isn't "scared," he just doesn't want to share you with his boy. Among other things, it would be seen as majorly gay to tell your friend you want to gang bang your girl with him.

[Guy13]

Cause you are his woman. Don’t want to know them…the third. Service Machine. Not Friend…

[LexiSuxx]

I mean I would prefer he knew who they were. I know who my friend is lol but even so he should be figuring all those details out.. not me lol

And he ain’t my man. Definitely not the way he be playing around lol

[Guy13]

I got you but what I know about these things, she does not want anyone involved that she knows. One did it because her boyfriend wanted to see friend there. She did not want anyone she knew 🤷🏻‍♂️ One she got the other girl and they interviewed…now these two were not plain Jane kind of people. It’s not my thing and maybe that’s why I get told about it🤷🏻‍♂️

[nawtee_me]

guys don't normally want to be with other guys because they may be better in bed than they are. Men would rather be with two girls than another guy. while girls will be with another girl and not think much of it.

[Dingsbums]

Guys don’t like mmw 3some unless they r bi so start looking for a bi dude

[Jenny-Marie]

I certainly wouldn't share my girlfriend/wife/partner.

[chicosuave]

3 some is a turn off.

[In_Trance]

It's probably not if you go about it the right way

[jimmy2]

I love you