I guess I’m just use to men leaving me alone when they find out I won’t sleep with them. For the first time in my life, a man I friend zoned is still communicating with me and actually trying to help me. We met at a laundromat when my washer went out. We were both single. He asked he out on a date but so declined Because I had to pick my daughter up from work that evening. He never asked me out on a date again but he would ask me to come along on jobs with him and he would pay me to help him be a back up shooter for his photography jobs at weddings. Mind you I had no prior experience. We both work third shift so we would message each other throughout the night and just talk about work and different things. This went on for a year. He started dating a woman two months ago and hasn’t spoken to me since. He proposed to her two weeks ago. He posted a video of it all going down on Facebook. A few days later he starts messaging me telling me he wants to get me hired at his job that pays a great amount per hour to be a manager. Hayes messaged me about it every day keeping me up with it and telling me he will prepare me for the questions before my interview. I’m honestly confused because I’m just not used to it. Is it possible he may generally like me as a person or is he trying to use me as a possible side chick? I asked him what he told his boss about me and he said he told him I’m not the type to play games that I’m a hard worker and I learn fast I will definitely get the job done.
Is it sad that I’m confused he still talks to me?
