Are men always impatient?

[karin1985]

Why men are always reluctant to know more about you, but always want to meet and date. What's the point of that?

[FilmGuy93]

In a situation like that, it's not reluctance to get to know you; they just want to do it in person because it's easier to get to know someone by talking in person. And it can be tough with women, even in person.

Far more often, the problem is that the woman simply hasn't given him anything to get to know. I can't tell you how many dates I've been on where I would have loved to ask my date questions or gotten to know her hobbies and passions better, but I couldn't because I had no idea what to ask about because the women literally gave me nothing to ask about.

[Adam1978]

They want to see and judge you in person, and validate what you say and behave rather then just waste time texting. If you are worth getting to know your worth getting to know in person. If you're not interested in meeting them they are wasting their time.

[Berethor]

Because women tend to friend zone patient men.

[karin1985]

Yes, I appreciate patient men more.

[Borntodie11]

They want a shallow relationship with girls? At that time in their lives at least. Some guys are looking for something deeper but theyre probably fewer in number.

[clampfan101]

Getting to know each other is the point of dating. It’s always great to have fun doing so, but dating is supposed to be about finding out how far you want to take your relationship. (And hoping they’ll be who they go all the way with.)

[Jamie05rhs]

What do you mean by "reluctant to know more about you"? Isn't the point of a date getting to know someone better?

[karin1985]

Two people who are not familiar with each other and dating would be a bad experience for me if the guy is not my type, and I would prefer to take some time to see if we are both right for each other.

[Jamie05rhs]

@karin1985 But how would you know if you didn't date him?
After the first date, if you don't like him at all, just don't have a second date.

[Noodle_fan]

it looks like those men that you met are looking for fun times only

listening to people tell story about themselves can be boring

[karin1985]

I like talking to people, I'm a good listener, and I like people who are patient. But, you should be right, those guys might just be looking for so-called "happy times."

[TonyMetal___86]

Where's the problem if a man wants to know more about you?

[karin1985]

So he'll love the constant video calls and ask if you have time to go out for a drink

[TonyMetal___86]

Well he might be attracted to you and wants to know more about you and hang out with you...
If your not attracted to him or if you don't share with him the same feelings than just tell him no or that you're not interested so he stops...

[Anonymous]

Always?

Having been in a very abusive relationship, both mentally and physically, I want to get to know someone as much as possible before we begin dating.

[Opinion Owner]

And it's much easier to get to know someone in person.

[AngelOfLight258]

Because they're really thirsty.

[karin1985]

Yes, dear, because they are so thirsty.

[jasco]

No but some of us are

[Anonymous]

No clue as to what you're talking about.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Karin