Getting into a guy’s mind: what do you usually think about when you see hot women when you’re with your girlfriend/wife?

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Userisrohit · Accepted Answer

😂😂 i don't have one  If i had one i will not bother looking to other girls and have that feeling of them being hot

AngryCarl · Accepted Answer

That depends on how things are going in my relationship. If it's good I barely notice.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I don’t think about “hot women”. Looking at an attractive female is an involuntary response compelled by the nearly overwhelming urge to procreate with mates whose genetics will ensure we have beautiful babies that will have better chances of mating and carrying on the bloodline. There’s no thought involved.
I don’t think about women at all until i observe specific behavior, or unless they speak. Actually, the same is true for how i think about men. A solitary observation is entirely instinctive and without thought.
This is why i’m convinced that men are better communicators than women. I value efficiency, and men tend to accomplish more with fewer words. Women are often considered more “detail oriented”, likely because they simply use more words. Your guy friends will simply say, “I like your hair.”. Your gal pals will go on about exactly what they like about what you’ve done differently, and likely include examples of what you’ve done in the past and continue with what you COULD do next time. You’ll get a lot more information, but is it all really necessary? Ell oh ell! Not usually, in my opinion.
Men aren’t dumb. We’re simple. Simple things work better for longer with less maintenance. That’s a good thing.

DaveJord · Answer

I usually think I got to be cleaver, because I don't want to get caught looking. Most guys like admiring an attractive women, like fine piece of art hang up in an art gallery. We admire the artist but its not like we're going grab the painting and take off the wall... and we know we can't afford it even if wanted to buy it.

So only thoughts going through my mind when I am out with my SO, is not getting caught looking, and being as causal as possible about it. And then reminding myself self I glad I am wearing my sun glasses, or if I am not wearing them, I am like damn I should of.

Those are my immediate thoughts, of course I am aware of the fact that I have no chance with this women, but I love the way she looks.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

Whenever I am in a mall and see a really well managed girl or a woman, all I think about is 'Wow what a fine woman/girl. She is really well maintained. Whoever she is with, he is a damn lucky guy for sure.

And that is it. I have my things to focus on. There are many fine girls you see in a mall, so no big deal there. And the same thought is there when I am outside. No erotic thoughts or something like it is predicted for men on an average.

Max to max, I would scan her clothes with more attention to detail than a normal I involuntarily do every time.

Sixgunsound · Answer

That picture is so true😆 It is not difficult to see and appreciate beauty without the need to have it. There are many beautiful women in the world, just like there are many beautiful works of art. I don’t need to have them all as I have the mother of my children and that is good enough for me. Men who do need to have them all have no self control or discipline or ability to choose one person for a meaningful relationship. When I was a young sailor I thought differently, but with maturity comes wisdom and experience. Having lived the crazy life and the stable life I much prefer stable.

Sandeeppingping · Answer

I'm guilty of flirting if I'm alone but I never went ahead and did something about it, but I used to see a hot woman when I was with my ex and would start giving out compliments just to piss her off, ironically she took it all as teasing from me but we ended up breaking up because she thought I cheated

Guardian45 · Answer

What do you usually think about when you see hot women when you’re with your girlfriend/wife?

Me: "Oh LOOK a HOTTIE...
DAMN! The shower this morning was TOO COLD...
Do I need to buy ice cubes for next week's party?
Do I need to buy more beer or wine? Women prefer wine... Guys prefer beer... I better buy more beer, especially if our home team loses... Yes, dear, I'll buy some ice and more beer... by the way, can you make some more snacks for the game? SH! T! I forgot to fill up with gas, but I can do it, when I go to buy the ice and beer"

ChiTown33 · Answer

I don't. The volume gets turned way down on other women when I have feelings for someone. It's like married women. I'm not saying they can't be attractive. But just the fact that they're married removes any interest I could ever have. Works the same for wives and girlfrienss of friends of mine. You "become persona non nookie" (to quote the movie Clerks 2) the minute you form a relationship with him to me.

MrPickles13 · Answer

Honestly I'd just notice she's attractive but go about my day. Wouldn't think any more on it as there is no more on it to think.

People will always notice others who are attractive that can't be helped. It's just what they do after that which can cause the issues.

Aerolyn · Answer

Back when I saw in a relationship I didn't think much of it. There's pretty girls all over the place, so I never think much of it.

Deed211 · Answer

Yesterday I saw a hot older woman and I was thinking: 😍 "Wowzys!!! God really puts an extra dose of "Everything nice" into that sweet pumpkin spice. 🎃 I wish I was good enough to get her lol.

Xtendable · Answer

I generally look, comment to her. She’s usually the one to point them out

Zolly99999 · Answer

If I'm with someone I truly love then I don't even notice other women.  Beside... I usually have my next car modification on my mind 😳🤣🤣

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

"Nice. But no sale. I'm sticking with what I've got. I hope only someone truly deserving snatches that one up."

Jenny-Marie · Answer

The same as if I see any attractive, nicely dressed lady. I appreciate them and appreciate what I already have. Rarely is grass greener on the other side of the street.

Still-alive · Answer

‘Whoa she's attractive.’ thats it. :p or if im horny at the time it might be ‘wow i wanna to go home and fuck my girlfriend right now’

spartan55 · Answer

Observe, appreciate, move on (all within a nanosecond)

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Pretty girl but when I'm in a good relationship I thinki got my girl an why worry about what I already have a great girl with a personality I really love

TroyDT · Answer

If I find her lovely I think that. But that is all. I admire the masterpieces in a museum, but I am happy with and prefer the Monet prints in my living room.

Havthrills · Answer

I would think "she's hot." That's why I wear reflective sunglasses so I can look without the hot woman knowing I'm checking her out.

Juxtapose · Answer

I'm not 13 anymore dude, women who look good don't make me go crazy. It's women who act well that get my attention

Light909090 · Answer

If only I could Show Her my Dick without getting into trouble.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nothing. I just see that the woman is attractive and then go about my day.

macjets007 · Answer

I think damn that bitch is fine as hell.. no different than any other situation lol I just try not to stare or glance over.

convo_king89 · Answer

I’m single but like any guy I get turned on, but I would have to control my self and force my self to focus on her.

Tztop2006 · Answer

I look, think she's cute then go about my day

Snakeyes7 · Answer

I eventually learned to ignore them. I felt awful in the process though. It took me a while to undo it once I became single again.

Fuentes · Answer

If I'm with a chick then just like oh she got something nice if I was single I'd clap but that's it and it wouldn't cross my mind again

Likes2drive · Answer

I just think wow she is attractive, I hope my girlfriend doesn’t see me looking and yell at me, lol

HaveNoName · Answer

I say "Fuck... Me..." and feel like life just defeated me. 😤

AviatorTom · Answer

Usually, when I see a hot woman (whether I'm with my SO or not), I think about how lucky some guy is to be with her.

Jerre · Answer

I think how nice she would look naked, how good it would be to fuck her

LaMiSch · Answer

When I normally see an attractive woman, I don't really think anything of it.🙈

IndyZee · Answer

Hope she (girlfriend/wife) doesn't catch me staring at her (hot woman) ass! 😆

Kaneki05 · Answer

Same as I am when Single. I just think that girl is hot.

RavVid · Answer

I am thinking of the hot girl's tits, ass & legs

JPresidente · Answer

She’s hot, I wonder what she looks like naked?

TrueConfection · Answer

🤣🤣🤣 I love the picture and captions.

Guy13 · Answer

“She’s alright, BUTT my wife is ♨️“

bolverk · Answer

We appreciate the view, nothing more

Makeushiver · Answer

I think they are hot

Andres77 · Answer

Nice…and move on…that’s it.

nawtee_me · Answer

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BLP11520 · Answer

I just admire what they have going on lust

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