Touching my breast accident?

[Anonymous]

My current boyfriend (15) and i were cuddling with his arm beneath me, when he put his arm round my side he touched my boob quickly however i don’t know if this was a mistake this also happened again later as if he was trying to put his hand where my boob is but forgetting where they were and so having to lower his hand, he also rested his head almost on top of my other boob (between my shoulder and boob) i think he might of felt them. im wondering if this was deliberate as he later moved his head even further nearer to my boob, why would he do this?

[Distorted]

Next time if he does it, say "do you like it?" (With a smileyvtone and confused face)

If he mentions it, then you got your answer.

If he gets confused and asks, "What?"
Then you gotta point or suggest something else and ask again if he likes it (that something else you pointed out). Then it's accident.

Either ways you get your answer, but if you wanna believe the answer from me, then... he's into your boobs

[Sandeeppingping]

Sounds deliberate to me but also sounds like there is something that's making you uncomfortable about it, because his behavior is normal for a boyfriend, we're dudes bruv, but definitely something is worrying you I don't know what it is though

[Sirenboobzilla]

Hmm sounds like maybe the first one was an accident, then curiosity got him to test the waters. Boys a are drawn to boobs. You're young, so my advice to you is to know your own boundaries and speak up, especially if it makes you feel uncomfortable

[MrOracle]

I would be concerned if he WASN'T actively trying to touch your boobs - that would mean something was very wrong with him. LOL.

[AndrésC64]

Are you really questioning whether your 15-year-old boyfriend tried to touch your boob? He's your boyfriend and he's 15 years old. My guess would be yes. And then my question would be, does it bother you that your boyfriend tried to touch your boob?

[Wise4myage]

Id say it was deliberate, and say something if it happens again.

[Asker]

Say something like what?

[Wise4myage]

If you didn't like what he was doing.

[Wise4myage]

Then just tell him.

[Asker]

Yes, However i am fine with it as long as that’s all

[Wise4myage]

Ok, than that's good. But just beware that guys will try to go further. Give a guy an inch and he might take a mile.

[Asker]

Okay Well let’s say next time he tries to put a hand on my chest what do i say? without directly telling him no, or being to harsh? just moving his hand away?

[Asker]

as in without ruining the mood, not because i don’t want to say no

[Wise4myage]

Yes, just casually push his hand away. No need to say anything.

[Asker]

Thanks, how far do you think he might go after last time?

[Wise4myage]

That’s hard to say. Probably as far as did the last time.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice

[Wise4myage]

Sure, glad to be of help.

[panamared1]

Just be blunt and say, hey I know you are copping a feel

[panamared1]

do you want him to do it

[Asker]

Well i don’t mind, but i don’t want him too think that i’d want to go further

[panamared1]

your body your rules

[Dojo1212]

because he's trying to feel your boobs up deliberately

[Anonymous]

Guys like that by the way...
For me i kiss he boobs and this stuff...
He wanna squeez ur boobs
I think you got nice boobs hehe

[swettannie]

that's no accident

[swettannie]

the question is, dit it bothered you?

[Asker]

Didn’t really bother me just don’t want him to go any further

[swettannie]

then you should say it

[clampfan101]

If not deliberate, at least insultingly careless.