Is it a red flag or whats going on?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I was using alcohol on my acne and was kinda hurtful, he saw my "ouch" reaction

And goes:"here cut my hand and pour some alcohol on it, so it hurts me too"

I need some explanation... why and what for? what he tries to tell me with it?

[LazerBean]

Thats really weird. I'd definitely be red flagging

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

What he means tho

[Guy13]

I hurt when you hurt…

[Guy13]

I am happy when you are happy. I am of one flesh with you. I really like to be in serious relationship with you is my guess. I think his understanding of what underpins commitment and relationship is misguided 🤷🏻‍♂️

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Can you simplify it
Im not native English speaker

[Guy13]

Whatever you feel he wants to feel too. We suffer and share joy together. Sign of love to him.
Want you for himself serious relationship
He is confused. Misguided in what relationship is about.
Better ⁉️

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Yup
He is confused about his love he feels?
I said i love him he said km important to him
He didn't say he loves me too
He didn't

[Guy13]

I see. He expresses his love in deeds.

Women express in emotion. First emotion then physical. First love/bond then Relationship. then sex.

Men first physical and know safe then secure and emotion/bond.
Man will do deeds: feel your pain. Work for household. Gift 🎁 you. Sometime all of these before “I love you”

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Feel your pain. you mean what he told me?
He bought me a parfume 2 weeks ago
He didn't have much money but he bought it anyways

[Guy13]

Yes and Yes, acts of love 💕

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

We date for 1.6 year already
A week ago had AMAZING PASSIONATE sex
What wrong with him
Why he can't say love you too
Why tell he values me... wtf

[Guy13]

That’s surrendered and submitted to some guys. Some guys whatever makes life easier 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[Anonymous]

Ok, that's just weird behavior.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I know
I wanna know wtf it means

[Opinion Owner]

He likes pain?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

No idea