Sharing pain is Love?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

If my boyfriend says he wants to share my pain and wants to feel the same physical pain

Is it love

Is he playing?

[melanieeeB]

Sounds like what a serial killer might say lmao
but usually someone being interested in you and wanting to help you with your pain is something good.
BUT the way he said it, seems creepy to me! Mostly people just ask "how can I make it better for you" and not so extreme like your friend with sharing the excat physical pain 🚩... I'm thinking of controlling and creepy and not 'oh how sweet' ...

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

My acne hurt after alcohol lotion
He saw me squint
And said : cut my hand and pour some alcochol i wanna feel the same pain

[melanieeeB]

Creeeeepy 🙄 sorry sounds weird to me

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

I know me too

[Zolly99999]

Saying it is one thing but actually hurting himself to duplicate your pain is weird.. it should be a red flag fir sure.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

He wanted to cut his hand and pour alcohol to feel the same pain as me with my acne

[Zolly99999]

That crazy in my opinion 😳😳

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Well
Thats why i ask

[Zolly99999]

He has some issues thats for sure