For the past 2 weeks my husband has been going out on the weekend to bars and clubs with his guys and staying out until 2-3 am. And sometimes gets home at 4 am because he goes out to Orlando which is an hour away. I don’t agree or accept it and he doesn’t seem to care.
I don’t usually recommend dumping a partner straightaway. But going to bars and clubs alone is not something married people do. Especially not on a regular basis. If he’s unwilling to even talk about your concerns then you need to start looking for an out. Once in a blue moon with some friends you trust, maybe... But none of my married friends would ever accept their husband or wife staying out getting drunk at sleazy bars with other drunk people. It’s not healthy, mature or loyal.
That behavior is concerning it's not about how late it is. It's how he chooses to exclude you so often. At best you need counseling. At worst he is probably cheating physically or emotionally.
Put a tape record on him 🤣 or hire a p. i but brace yourself
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It seems bad and unacceptable to me that he goes out to bars/clubs in the first place without you.
That’s pretty late. If he’s having a guys night. Boys will be boys, but that’s not a good habit to continue with. (And trust me, I’m no saint.)
Watch out if he seems too tired to have sex with you.
Go with him.
I’d say 12
Maybe you argue too much.
Did he sex with you after came home from club?
Time for upgrade
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