guy calls me to talk about anything we hangout We kissed couple times sleepover nothing happened besides cuddling. He says he has feelings for me and comfortable with me, but nothing can happen because he’s scared we will lose what we have. trying to be respectful of me? Did I just get friendzoned? Or is he trying to spare my feelings.
I'm always a bit surprised when I see these questions pop up. How are we supposed to know what some random guy is thinking? Why do you not talk to him? There aren't even a lot of details or context to the question.
Seems like you two are romantically physical with the kissing. Want me to take my guesses? Well, it could be that he wants in your pants and made some advances and decided they weren't working.
Then he says he "doesn't want things to change" in hopes that you will say "oh, please no. I want to take it further!". There is one guess.
Another is he does indeed feel uncomfortable with how things have heated up and wants to back off in fear he will lose the friendship. That is entirely possible.
Yet even another scenario, he had a change of heart and he is letting you down easy. Now, which of these do you like the most? They are all good guesses. Without talking to him like a person in their 30s and discussing like adults, all you will get are more guesses like mine and no real solution.
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Indecisive. He is not man enough to push by friends unless you lead it. Sort of normal…next time together…got an idea 💡
He waiting for you to take a move...
He scared of lossing you. So take a move if you wanna get fucked by him.
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What signals are you giving him because throughout that description you're giving him nothing?
Friendzoned.
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