Why is my boyfriend making a big deal out of my age?

[Anonymous]

he's 28 and I've just turned 30. Not to mention I regularly get ID and people think I'm in my low 20s because I workout a lot and keep a trim figure

[musicbrain5]

How is he making a big deal out of it? The way you worded your question, it sounds like you’re the one making a big deal about it.

[Anonymous]

Sounds as though you’re the one who’s making a big deal about it.

[jshm2]

You're older, but make him feel old.

[Wise4myage]

Have you tried asking him?

[Anonymous]

In what way?

[Asker]

he's assuming I'll want kids soon Jesus cheist I literally turned 30 last month. If I'm childless at this age I doubt I'll want anytime soon escoailky since most girls in the uk are already pregnant well before 30

[Opinion Owner]

He's getting uncomfortable because he thinks you want to be a parent and he's not ready? You two have never spoken about children before?

[Asker]

I don't know where he assumed because I don't talk about that crap

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like you two need to have a serious discussion about what you want