Guy I’m dating said he felt unwell and wanted to have an early night and has now said I’m too much?

[Anonymous]

Basically this guy and I have had a few dates, he’s already told me he really likes me and could see it getting serious with us.

He said he wanted to see me we didn’t plan something for definite and then on the day he told me he wasn’t feeling too well and had nearly passed out. One of my friends saw he had popped to the pub for one drink so I’m my head I thought he was feeling well and I would see him.

After this he told me he wanted to go home and have an early night as he was still feeling rough so I just said to him “if your feeling that unwell why go to the pub”

he has since said I’m too much, said I kicked off when I asked one simple question.

[Anonymous]

This guy is a joke. He probably filled your head with lies to get what he wanted (likely sex), and you either gave it to him or he got bored of trying. I doubt you are too much, it has just been excuse after excuse because he lacked the courage to just cut things off. He said what he said so he could deflect guilt from himself and make you feel like the villain. Unfortunately it worked, otherwise you wouldn’t be here asking this question.

[Asker]

Worse thing is he called it off previously because he couldn’t deal with the fact that previously I had been a glamour model so I let him go a few days later he messaged me saying what a huge mistake he has made and now I have this!

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry, but now you know where he really stands. I believe that actions do the talking, not words. Don’t let him take you for granted and treat you like that, instead just wash your hands and walk away.

[Ninania]

Guy can't take responsibility and makes it out to be your fault. If it's a pattern, you should cut your losses.

[OlderAndWiser]

So what is your question?

[Asker]

Am I too much?

[OlderAndWiser]

You are too much for him, which just means that you are not a subservient little sheep and his manipulations do not work with you.