Sould I leave my boyfriend?

Question

my boyfriend is becoming so toxic he never allows me to go anywhere at night with my friends... he says that it will make him worried about me... he is always forcing me to stay at home... even when i go out he calls me every 5minutes to get the update.. and when i come back he will start fighting with me.. he says its because of his love for me and no other boy is ever gonna love me like that

sawno · Accepted Answer

You are calling him toxic and find him restrictive in what you wish to do in life? And it gets to the point of frequent fights? That kind of speaks for itself, but you are also depecting a very one sided story here.

Ask yourself what you love about him, not feelings, but traits. What makes him special to the point you want to stay with him? If you can't come up with a reason to stay over this downside you experience then the answer will be very obvious. If you can come up with a good reason to stay weigh up what is more important to you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

1000000000% yes. I don't know why you're asking because you sound like you've got a list of reasons to leave him already. My ex girlfriend was like that too. Everyone was the enemy. They will swear that they trust you and that everyone else is the problem, but in reality they're just a mess of jealous insecurity and lashing out in an attempt to preemptively stop you from cheating on them

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

That sounds like he's trying to control you to me. I dated a narcissist in college who did the exact same thing. He's being controlling and then trying to turn it around by claiming it's because he just loves you that much. The, no man will love you like me, bullshit is him being insecure and trying to convince you that you better love him or you'll be unhappy for the rest of your life.