Do you think I’m not attractive to women?

[Anonymous]

I tried tinder. Took nice quality pics, good clear concise bio.

zero matches apart from 1 fat girl. Other times I matched with a couple pretty girls but zero replies.

Women all chase the super hot guys. You’re either very hot or women don’t want you.

Tinder has made unattractive women feel like they deserve hot guys. It’s over for men.

I might as well give up, society sucks.

I agree to get a pretty girl you usually have to be very good looking these days

I disagree

[Aelleden]

Tinder is extremelly toxic, I've been told I was hot by girls I met IRL and I can tell that if I was never been told that, I would have my self esteem crushed from Tinder alone.
You should get off Tinder and resume to regular dating.

When you browse a furniture website, you look for the perfect size, the perfect material, the perfect color, the perfect price, the perfect availability and so on, because you have so many choices at hand.

When you meet people in person, you get to know people for what they are and you don't have thousands of people to compare them with, so you'll be attracted to more girls and more girls will be attracted to you that way.

[Anonymous]

Every guy is unattractive to about 80 to 90% of women. Women have been and will always be a numbers game with guys. You need to get comfortable with the fact that you only going to be remotely attractive to 10 to 20% of women. And no woman on a dating site wants to be there to begin with. So your battle is further uphill as most of them 10 to 20% have chips on thier shoulders and will look for a reason to reject you. Honestly man I won't even message women. They have to message me. That's the only way I'll do this.

[Anonymous]

If you’re still matching up with pretty girls then that means some of them still find you attractive. The fact that you’re not getting any responses back could mean that your opening line isn’t interesting enough to catch their attention

[grierwrange]

Because most people don’t meet people online. The ones that do usually have a reason to. Best case is they have high standards. Worst is that they have a lot of baggage and issues

[Pot8o]

Tinder just worsens an already skewed winner-takes-all dating market for guys. My friend who is a major hit with the ladies keeps trying to get me to use Tinder and I don't know how to explain to him how different our experiences with women are.

I want to say you can do it, don't give up, you can develop, etc., but I don't believe it in my own case so it feels fake to tell you that.

[BJP21]

Unless you're paying for premium and the planets align a certain way, you may get lucky, typically not many use online dating. More than half of what you see are fake profiles. I gave up online dating after having been Catfished, and emotionally drained from the fallout. I will never trust any online date platform of any kind. If you're one that has met, I call it significantly lucky because not many of us are.

[JPresidente]

It's what's happening these days. All the girls that are 5-7 who think they are 10's or they won't settle for anything less than a 10 overlook any guy below a 9. You get stuck with the crumbs. Ladies are not dating equals or downs, only up.

[Guy13]

No pictures no accurate response 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[CloudMassacre]

In my experience, Tinder is a hookup app, so it makes sense that you’re getting poor matches