What to do when I'm attracted to a jerk?

[Anonymous]

What should I do when I'm really attracted to a total jerk? He is super hot, super charming and our chemistries match so Well.
But when he opens his mouth, he is a total jerk. One thing after another he says even stupider things...
How could I trick my brain to not be attracted to him? 😂
As a background story, I can tell that he use d to drive me nuts (not in a good way) when we were doing a several school projects together (maybe faith). But also, there was this instant chemistry between us and not soon after, he started to really like always be close to me, touching me (approppriately, not anything weird) and after that hugging me out of nowhere? And he always followed me around and found me wherever I went. This was last year tho, coz after that we didn't really have any lessons together or the lessons we had together he made me so furious I just wanted to punch him...

[ManOnFire]

I can't seem to understand the attraction to disrespectful men. I don't think I ever will.

[Asker]

It's mostly physical attraction. But I can't seem to control this but I guess that's just natural haha😂 There's no way I really wanna be in volved with him, but my body is having a different opinion

[ManOnFire]

Seems to be the case with a lot of young women.

[Asker]

Well yeh, I guess it's normal for everyone at least at a young age. Hormones and all haha😬
Doesn't really solve my problem tho.😅😅😅

[ManOnFire]

Welllllllll, when I was younger I had an attraction to sluts and women with bitchy attitudes, but I outgrew that because I think I was even becoming better and deeper as a person, much more than those women. So their behaviors/lifestyles didn't appeal to me anymore, and I honestly don't even find them to be attractive at all.

[Asker]

Ok, well I will avoid this guy until I'm like 40 then😂

[ManOnFire]

You should avoid him now. Why? Because soooooo many times girls get caught up with guys like these and they either end up pregnant and alone, or abused, or their life gets turned up side down because of him. Numerous young women have burdened their families because of their pursuit of guys like that.

[Asker]

😂😂😂 I can't do anything else than laugh. This is already Ridiculous XD Blame the girls for guys being jerks. There's nothing wrong there. I just gotta be careful not to burden anyone! Oh my... This obviously the girl's fault if they get abused and what a horrible burden to get pregnant.

[ManOnFire]

I don't blame the girls for guys being jerks. I blame the blame the girls for choosing them and then later on becoming unhappy because of those jerks.

[Asker]

Yes, like that is any better. There's no problem with guys being jerks just girls choosimg them is the problem.

[ManOnFire]

Of course the guys who are jerks are bad, but who is being attracted to them and choosing them? The ones who choose them are worse because they clearly already know he is a jerk. Is the fire worse or the person who knows they'll get burned but touch it anyway?

[Anonymous]

Real simple. You just need to mature a little bit.

[Berethor]

Girls like bad boys, don't they? :)

[humanearth]

You like to Jerk, might as well keep him

[Asker]

I don't like to jerk actually. It's not that great

[humanearth]

Well that's a typeo but you got me on a technicality

[Asker]

Yes, I got it😬

[_Just_A_girl_]

Make a long list of his cons and read them again

[Anonymous]

You give him head. You don't need to listen to him