Why can both men and women talk so vile about the other sex behind closed doors?

[Summeroflove]

The conversations both with men and women when people of the other sex aren’t around. Can sometimes be downright vile. Alright not everyone does this.

Sometimes it’s more mean and hateful. Other times it’s perverted. Sometimes about people they like. People they don’t even know. As well as people they have slept with. Are interested in. Are secretly creeped out by. Current parents and exs

[In_Trance]

Are you saying you have an issue with people having conversations? WTF

[Summeroflove]

Talking bad behind your back. Yeah that’s a problem.

[In_Trance]

Who gives a fuck what other people talk about?

[Summeroflove]

If they’re saying bad stuff about you. Wouldn’t you wanna know? Or are you someone who does that? You’re really defensive.

[In_Trance]

Trust me I don't give a single fuck what other people talk about.

[Summeroflove]

That’s fair enough. I’m just saying people shouldn’t do that.

[Anonymous]

People are backstabbers.

[Summeroflove]

Not everyone. But you’re right. It isn’t a gender thing. It’s a people think. People can be nice to your face and talk shit behind your back.

I would rather someone tell me they dislike me.