Harsh truth about men & sex that women just don’t understand?

[PopMart1997]

Look, there’s something about sex women in general don’t understand about men; it’s not about the physical for us, it’s about the emotional. Sex is how men actually pairbond with women. When women deny men intimacy, when they make it conditional, when they treat it as an afterthought, they’re telling men directly “you don’t love him”, at least not in the way that he needs to be loved. The message you’re sending men day after day is that the feelings you have for them is purely conditional - they need to be bought and paid for, they aren’t given freely and thus they really aren’t valid. I know you women don’t like hearing that, but that is the reality. You all say you need to have an emotional connection in order to have physical intimacy, and that’s how you’re biologically programmed. But for men, there isn’t a separation of the two. They are deeply intertwined, and they go hand in hand. So when you make it obvious that physical intimacy is not a priority to you, you are telling the man he is not a priority to you, either.

[kylee2437]

I don’t agree with this sorry. It’s not about the man’s love, it’s about the fact that the guy needs sex. And having a need for sex is valid, but manipulating it into a way that says “it shows a woman doesn’t love you” is manipulative, because we all know a man isn’t staying in a relationship with someone solely because they provide them sex only. And if you do feel that way, then all you care about is sex, you don’t care about actually holding a soul connection with anyone, and you just may be the problem in your relationship. You think a woman wants to be conned into sex with a man that doesn’t provide her a relationship full of happiness? Because we all know when she puts out, you aren’t changing your ways for her.

[Asad1ONE1]

Wrong. Most “sane” women already know the truth in his post.

[kylee2437]

@Asad1ONE1 I’m a woman that loves sex and it’s false. You don’t get more out of a man because you put out. Thats perpetual bullshit. A man is going to give you what he wants. The only exception I will give here is cheating. Yes he will probably cheat if you don’t put out, but everything else that is needed in a relationship will only come from a man that has that in him

[kylee2437]

@Asad1ONE1

[Asad1ONE1]

You’re a “woman” yes. Not “women”.

🤡🤡

[kylee2437]

@Asad1ONE1 and? If I a woman that loves sex, and my opinion is even more validated here. Sex is just a high for most people including men. A man isn’t just going to start getting you flowers and taking you out on dates because you gave him the hawk tuah. Especially when he wasn’t doing that already

[Asad1ONE1]

Nothing in the post is gender specific. And neither is the opposite of the story.

[kylee2437]

@Asad1ONE1 are you on drugs? The question is literally gender specific. Includes the words “men” and “women”. Do you need me to send you a link to an app that breaks down things word for word for you like a 3 year old needs?

[hanabunny]

Lol I don't really believe this post as a whole because so many men use women for sex like it's nothing, I don't think there's an emotional connection or pair bond every time.

However I can admit as a woman that we usually have easier access to sex and can think of casual sex as something we don't have agency over that just passively happens to us. I've hooked up with guys where it didn't feel like pair bonding but I wasn't sure what exactly I was doing it felt like it just kinda happened. Maybe those situations feel like more of a deep bond for the guy sometimes? Unless he's a player who just wants to sleep with a lot of girls

[Asad1ONE1]

Keep dreaming little girl. You reap what you sow.

[hanabunny]

@Asad1ONE1 Um, what?

[Asad1ONE1]

Women who sleep around clearly aren’t looking for an emotional connection lol. At least in most cases. And so they’re technically using each other. It’s just obvious though that it’s just those women who are offended by it and not really the men. Probably because they have more to lose with loose sexual encounters like yourself? Lll

[hanabunny]

@Asad1ONE1 Well I think what happens is girls give in to sexual pressure from guys thinking it’s for “love” and then he abandons them after using them. Then you can end up using each other in hookups that’s true. But if guys really just wanted love they wouldn’t use girls like that

[Asad1ONE1]

Most women (at least the ones with values) already know this. Just not the s***s on here that are clearly offended by this reality because they decided to sleep around and expect something special 🤡.

[DrPepper12]

Please don't speak for all men even if you are partially correct

[Ms_Facesitter]

I can agree to an extent. Sit on a guy's face once and he would be mine. Wrapped-around-my-finger mine. Submissive guys, switches, they'd kneel if I told them to. And personality wise they would open up and would tell me just about everything.

But we could have long deep talks. Surely it can't just be about intimacy in bed. Making him feel welcome, appreciated and respected should be factors too, right?

[Ironco]

Good answer

[Anonymous]

They just don't feel it anymore. They gradually lose attraction and they see you sexually as a random average guy on the street. They don't even know that they don't want you anymore, their system is turned off. Until they meet a new guy who turns them on (no pun intended). Don't blame them. They feel like it's non-consensual sex. Accept it.

[Lliam]

Partially false information.
Not all men are the same and neither are all women.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Lol 😭

I don't know about all that. We definitely process sex differently though.

[Anonymous]

If you want a sex doll just buy one. This is so objectifying and demeaning to women.

[clampfan101]

This definitely has some truth in it.

[Anonymous]

What do most men know about an emotional connection?

Diddly squat, that's what!

[PopMart1997]

Enough to tell you that harsh truth that you’re clearly offended by.

[Asad1ONE1]

Exactly. She’s clearly into pure physical sex lol

[Anonymous]

Go date. Listen, learn.

[MK1997]

This is such crap.