Why does my boyfriend not answer my phone calls or text msgs?

[Anonymous]

we are in a rough spot these past month. i have brought up the past way too much this month and he told me that he doesn’t care about it anymore. i think he’s scared to talk to me bc he will never know if i’ll talk about the past or make him feel like trash for doing what he did. he says he loves me all the time but he knows that eventually he will lose feelings for me if i keep this crap up. i’m out of town right now so I don't know if he’s cheating on me. I don't know what to do. i’m also really tired of brining up the past. i want to let the past go and be happy with the present. i also don’t know what to do with him. i don’t want him to lose more feelings for me than he already has. advice on this situation would be so very nice to me right now.

[boggboss]

U have yo actually decide what u want because u can't have both be happy with him and bring up the situation of the past that ubare away and are thinking he might be cheating shows u don't trust him so this situation is clearly not going to work

[Asker]

well one someone says to you “i love you for right now, but eventually i’ll loose feelings for you” makes you think he’ll cheat on you. i called him and he doesn’t answer. and if he does he always says “let me call you later”

[boggboss]

OK so decide what u want again clearly u don't trust him so why are u staying with a guy u don't trust I never said its your fault that u don't trust him but u are choosing to stay