Successful good looking lawyer goes quiet?

[Anonymous]

Hi boys! :) help please! Damsel in distress here 😅
I hooked up with a guy, about a year ago, at a wedding. I was rather drunk and didn’t remember much the next morning. He adds me on Instagram and we go our separate ways.

Fast forward one year - he is liking all my stuff on Instagram (well always has) and I decide to message him. He responds and gives me his number.

For about two weeks we send long messages to each-other and have good conversation. He said he has been thinking about our sex often and remembers all the positions we did 😂

And then - on Wednesday - he just stops replying. The convo was fun and flirty and I didn’t say anything rude.

Is he busy or what’s happened?

Plot twist though - at the wedding he had a girlfriend. But that didn’t seem to stop him… so do you think she has something to do with it?

I’m confused 😐 help please

Updates

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Update everyone …. He responded this morning ……

“Morning! My week ran away from me and my dad was down too so it was chaotic but should be calm going forward 🤗😁 how was your week?”

[Staximus]

Maybe he has a girlfriend, maybe he's a player, maybe he was looking for more than "fun and flirty" conversation? Did he ask to meet up with you again? Did you have any meaningful conversations? Are you just looking for a fuck boy? Did you say you wanted to see him again or did he say he wanted to see you again? It's only been 2 days, relax.

[Asker]

You were right :) I was over reacting :) about to post an update.

[xColinx]

Not trying to be all judgy on ya but getting involved (again) with a dude in a long-term relationship has roughly 0% chance of ending well. Just practically speaking, it's a dumb play.

[KrakenAttackin]

He banged you as a random hookup, he does not respect you.

[JPresidente]

Me thinks he has a girlfriend and is talking to you on the side.

[Asker]

So the girlfriend is still very much there :/ but surely when he is at work he could have responded to my messages? He even said he lives alone …. But - that could also be a lie 😂

[JPresidente]

I think when he’s horny he talks to you but when he’s with the girlfriend or he feels guilty, he goes silent.

[Stevefiveo]

Hmm, it sounds like he got busted by the girlfriend.

[Asker]

Yup … they have been together 7 years apparently 👀😅 and he hasn’t proposed. Also …not the best looking 😐anyways - it’s not always about looks. I did said the messages quite late as well and one after another. Maybe that woke them up.

[Vegasrunner]

I think this is a terrific post for guys to read that shows the true nature of females.

[NathanDavis]

he's exercising the fifth...

[spartan55]

Confused about what it was a ONS...

[Asker]

Yeah 🤣 then why start texting me and like all my stuff? Why not just leave it?

[spartan55]

He wants to hit that again if possible.

[Asker]

That makes a lot of sense.
Well he has ruined it by not responding so - sorry for him

[spartan55]

He played it wrong then, his game needs work

[Asker]

I agree Spartan! Foreplay starts in the convo 😂 his loss

[Anonymous]

Maybe he’s got another woman in his life?

[Asker]

Maybe …. Or probably isn’t that into me. When I like someone - I can’t Wait to reply to their messages. Maybe that’s just me.

[Opinion Owner]

But he said he thought about you a lot?

[Asker]

Yup! He said he thought about my pic in a bikini five times since I sent it … how he thought about our sex lots… and he loved my pics and how I looked. Doesn’t make sense 😵‍💫

[Opinion Owner]

You must look hot in that bikini, hehe.👀👀

[Asker]

You bet I do!

[Opinion Owner]

Nice. 😛