QUIT OR JUST KEEP IT MOVING SINCE JOBS ARE HARD TO COME BY? ?

[Anonymous]

I just started a new job, anyway…during the interview he was smirking like crazy, well now that I got the job, he stares at me blankly in my face, or he will come around my desk area and start hollering asking why am I still working and I’m like why are you yelling, and we have 10mins to go, he smirks and says well you can leave …. and waits for me to pack up and walked me 2 the elevator…. the other day, we were around a few coworkers and he didn’t speak at all to me but he spoke to them…. he didn’t speak to me until the end of the day….., sometimes he’ll come by my desk and just smirk at me and walk away, but doesn’t speak…. most friends and fam call me Dani, but at work its Danica as i put on the job application…well he took it upon himself to call me Dani and say you can leave now, just staring at me blankly, stating you’ll get paid for the whole day…. he hasn’t given me any work to do, but other employees have, there are plenty young women at the office he can pick on and who have been there for a while vrs my few weeks…now that i’ve been there for a while, he keeps picking on me, flirting etc and i told him you know what you are doing is sexual harrassment, he said yes. and if i want to file charges go ahead, he will just deny it…ive told him to stop and he still won't, he told me twice with a dirty look that i dont tell him no, i will give him what he wants and i will be his…, i also found out he is spreading rumors that im messing around with him and going to his house etc and im not…. now i know he sits at lunch with the dumb secretary but he is playing games with her and she thinks he would never hurt me….. what should i do? he’s been there for 10yrs vrs my 5 months…

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he stares at me constantly, he watches me during the day and he keeps telling me that he is watching me, i think he has a tracker on my phone, cuz he seems to know where im at without knowing where im at…. sometimes he’ll say sexual innuendos like go on with your bad self, and now i can use my hands on you and we're going to be closer than you think, we will be more than friends you'll see, im watching you, you will be mine you' see... i know people etc….

[CindersFire]

I would try to start recording you private conversations. Start a log, and possibly start emailing him and Bccing your personal emailing asking him if he remembered why he came to your desk, confirming that he gave you permission to go home, etc. This will give you plenty of ammunition when, if you go to HR or an attorney. In additon I would ask around and see if anyone else can confirm the rumors he's spreading as well as if he's doing, done this to anyone else that can confirm that this is something he has done in the past.

[OlderAndWiser]

You should consult a labor law attorney for assistance in resolving this problem. Perhaps you can surreptitiously record some of the interactions and get irrefutable proof of what he is doing. Don't do that wihout consulting an attorney as it is not legal in all states.

[Anonymous]

ew.. he's gross. i get that its not easy to get a job, but i wouldn't stay.

[Guy13]

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