A guy your walking past in the street will often times turn back around and watch you from behind.
I think many guys may do so for the purpose of exercising the criteria for mate selection. That's it. Not for the purpose of actually approaching her. But to exercise whether what he's seeing fits what he believes he likes, a form of self auditing almost. Im doing my best here to explain something that is primal and unconscious lol
I may even be missing the mark, however I can say that it isn't necessarily for the purpose of pursuit.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
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+1 ySo you're asking why a man would look at a woman's picture and yet not talk to her? Okay, I'll answer.
It's really rather simple. Men like looking at women. So just because we don't know you and/or don't like you doesn't mean we're not going to look at you. Views are free (because you're making them free) and mean nothing at all. If y'all put it out there, we're going to look at it.
If you ladies want us to be interested in you as a person, you need to do something more than just show off your body.03 Reply- +1 y
@Bratz1211 He's your crush, not your boyfriend.
And does he even know you like him? - +1 y
Thanks for the MHO.
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+1 yCause he likes looking at her half naked. Doesn’t necessarily mean he likes her.
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Ohhhh. Shit. Yeah I think he does still like her. Sorry girl 😢.
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Not sure why. But if he used to be into her and he’s checking out her stories twice he probably still is.
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Maybe. Depends on how mad he was and if she offered to hook up.
Why are you acting like a dahmer? Stop stalking the man
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He's just admiring the view, that's all.
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Yeah I agree we tend to just look, but nothing more. It's pretty difficult not to sometimes honestly.
+1 yLol. He might be lusting after her. I have no idea really. That or sometimes you miss something once or you watch something again. You could be making a mountain out of a mole hill. But you really don't give the context. Just ask him
Is it your boyfriend watching another girl? Asking about a friend? Asking about yourself?
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I have no idea. But if you have a crush on him and he is single. I would make a move on him fast... You never know unless you ask but you might miss any chance you have
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well... Then if he is a man whore leave him be
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Yeah I would say so. If he just sleeps around I would avoid him
662 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. If someone is repeatedly watching someone else videos, pictures, etc. they likely do like that person. They probably don't know if the other person likes them too and if they are friends they don't want to risk the friendship or make things awkward by asking them out in case the other person isn't interested. If they aren't friends so there is nothing to risk, I don't know why they wouldn't just tell the other person that they are interested.
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+1 yGirls have been showing skin to get male attention since we evolved into a dimorphic two parent species. They do it to get attention because it works. If he’s not saying anything to her, then who cares?
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If he isn’t saying anything to her, he could just be taking a pleasant walk down memory lane.
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Understandably that’s still bad news for you because he still thinking about her.
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If he saw a way to get back in there, he probably would’ve by now. Do you know for a fact that just because he’s not making attempts on social media that he isn’t via text message or phone call or email or other platforms etc? My recommendation is to start looking elsewhere if he still isn’t over her yet, and if he’s still looking whether he’s talking or not he is not over her. I guarantee you if she messaged him to smash, he would be over there quicker than grass through a goose! Do your heart a favor and look elsewhere.
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Is she objectively good looking? For some guys that’s all it takes. Which then raises the question how are your interests being served if he is only interested in a pretty face or a hot body to the point where he will keep paying attention to her even though they’ve long since separated? I’m going to assume you would be angry if you and him became an item and he kept looking at her? Think about how much more sad that would make you then be sad you’re experiencing because I am giving you good advice.
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Well of course she’s attractive to him she spread her legs for him. When she spread her legs for another guy the attraction just as predictably stopped. Do you want someone saying that about you someday?
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He finds cheap easy sex attractive. He’s also territorial. Those two ideologies are fundamentally incompatible, because the girls who give it away for nothing tend not to mesh ideologically with a territorial male, because if they give it up so cheaply and easily to him they’ll give it up cheaply and easily to other guys as well which sounds like what happened. He’s still attracted to a good looking female, but he feels like she burned him so is content to enjoy her beauty from afar, possibly while fantasizing about their sexual encounters.
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Something tells me is that after about a week or so without getting his dick wet he would bang a beached whale with buck teeth and a cowlick who hasn’t showered in a while because he seems to equate sex with validation, or perhaps just likes getting his rocks off with women he considers disposable. I understand the heart wants what the heart wants, but sometimes the brain needs to step in and say no the heart doesn’t seem to understand that in a few days or a week or so it’s going to be on the floor in 1000 pieces.
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I think this is his immature way of punishing her for violating his territorial sovereignty. Since most people in this age category don’t have the emotional maturity to face somebody and break off a relationship, ghosting her is the best he can do. And if he ghosted her why wouldn’t he ghost you once he’s gotten what he wants from you? It doesn’t sound like you’re interested in marriage with him, so if you hook up with another guy why would you have any reason to believe he would treat you any differently? Unless you just want a one time smash with him at which point you do you as long as you’re aware of the issues that tend to correspond with that.
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She already demonstrated she’s willing to give him cheap easy sex, as far as you’ve told me you have not demonstrated that, so a guy like him he’s going to go for the sure thing.
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Because even though he’s upset about another guy getting it too, I don’t think he would refuse her offer of sex as long as he’s getting his rocks off.
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All I’m saying is that despite there being some bad history, if she messaged him to smash I am reasonably certain they both have a big smile on their face in the morning that’s all I’m gonna say about it.
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You describe him as the kind of guy who sees below the belt but not above the neck, such that any hole will do when the need arises. The issue isn’t picking her over you emotionally, the issue is picking the hole he’s already been in because he knows he can get access.
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You have to understand that the average woman in the average man approach intimacy differently, because evolutionarily biology has hardwired different goals for intimacy.
+1 yI don't know what you mean by "girls story." Also, depends on the context. He might be interested? Some I look again to see if there's anything embarrassing in the background to joke about.
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Oh. He likes to see girls. I know many couples that say that's OK cause some people are beautiful. Like the woman will look at guys, the guy will look at women, but they are with each other in the end. It's not like they are chasing the other or trying to have sex with them. There was one girl I talked to long ago. She was mad that her boyfriend looked at a woman. So I asked her if she never ever looked at a guy. She couldn't be mad at him again cause she would check out guys too but mad if he checked out a woman.
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Also, it does depend on the content or is he just looking at her pic.
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Not necessarily. He might think they look good, but not think of having sex with them. I looked at some pics on here twice, didn't think of having sex with them. The only one that can really answer that is him though.
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Tough one. Maybe a tiny bit of him does. Talk to him, maybe not about hat just yet. Interrupt it and have him turn towards you. That was the past. There will always be memories but if you really like him, make now memories with him for him.
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That's not much of a time span. He might unless someone talks to him first. Do you talk to him and hang out? Just the two of you? If he's your crush, maybe make him your boyfriend? He still has all the memories of them together.
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Then he's slowly getting over her in his own way. Just do what you do and be there with him. He's backing off and getting rid of her. Keep him distracted from her.
+1 yIt's in man's nature to want to observe sexually arousing images, sounds, etc because it gives them a dopamine boost. Just like how it's in a woman's nature to seek validation and be hypergamous.
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+1 ypeople watch a ferrari car if it passes by again and again, the car owner wants that validation as well. Same is the case for the girl, she wants validation he gives, but he know for sure that she is out of his league...
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+1 yMaybe he does it cause their half naked
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It’s my crush! I saw him watch that story again! I does this mean he likes her still? Cause they had a thing in the past.
+1 yI think checking ex partners on social media is pretty common. In most cases that doesn’t mean anything…
00 ReplyI don't think there is and other reason or reason to it. He sees a half naked girl and he likes.
01 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I also generally do that. No reason. Just enjoying the view.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yHe could just be admiring the story or he might have noticed something and wanted to double check
01 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Can you stop asking these silly dumb questions all the time?
00 ReplyDoesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you come home for supper
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+1 yTo decide if he should watch it a third time
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+1 yMaybe likes her and is shy. How do you see view total? What story?
01 Replyi think he really like it
04 ReplyIt sounds like there's something there
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yMasturbating?
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+1 yHe's bored
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yHorniness
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Opinion Owner+1 yMost women don't like dick pictures and that is the most likely thing he would send.
Opinion Owner+1 yYes, it does
Opinion Owner+1 yYes. I only pay attention to my exes if I wanted them back.
Opinion Owner+1 yI don't know
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