I did not write to him for few days and then he asked" why you did not write to me". He ask exactly the same thing day after he left me. Why?

[Deimy]

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Giving the silent treatment cost you dearly it seems. Just know that not all guys fall for the silent treatment.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I am sorry. I think the above message is a bit mean.

Please consider this my opinion-

I think, you not texting him was the trigger point for him to leave you. A trigger point for so many of mini decisions to be executed.

And he wanted to know just exactly what actually led him to take the big step.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Since you are a student and a singer over that, I decided to give another angle to your question.
I am really sorry for my rudeness for my first opinion.

[Deimy]

You know it is not like that.. Actually after our second date when we had sex again, he got angry... He said " I am dissapointed" . He seems dissapointed cause I was bleeding during sex and at first he really idealised me said he see a future with me, wants to dste me and my babies. So, after second time he said he does not like my astetics: my foot nail ( cause he is darker than other: it caused by nail disease ( you understand) . He was very harsh to me and said he does not like also how I react to him but then he started to be nice again and promised that we will have other date without sex cause he wants to know me better. First time I lost my virginity to him but I was a bit drunk and depressed over my ex, but he wrote me the next morning said the sex was amazing and I saw he was impressed and into me... but then after that second date he was always busy with his medicine studies saying he has time planning problems , he is fucked up person with emotions he hates himself but his priority is his studies so we can meet just after 2 weeks and our date never happened he was promising me things and asking not to leave him then I was angry I called him a bad guy and a user my friend did the same so he left me saying I have too many red flags and I crossed red lines by doing it. However he told my friend that I amazing and deserve to be happy and he thanked me for everything
Like wtf?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

He is high on emotional roller coaster. Just leave him alone and move on. He needs to sort his present existing things before adding new things in his life.
But here is the exact problem. He may never sort them out.

As I can think, he is the one who crossed so many red lines in the first stages of relationship. And he was blaming you.

Don't consider his accusations as they are really applied to him. You did nothing wrong.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

"my foot nail ( cause he is darker than other: it caused by nail disease ( you understand)"

I am sorry, I really did not understand what you meant here. Can you tell me please?

[Deimy]

It is caused by finger fungus

[Deimy]

I had it once

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Oh... no problem there then.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Are you using a translating tool? To translate from your language to English?

[Deimy]

Nope

[Deimy]

Sorry I did not pay a lot of attention to grammar usually I do

[Deimy]

But maybe you can understand?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I see. I thought you were having struggle with it since, I think your original language is French (?)

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I can definitely understand it. Not a big deal.😁👍

[Deimy]

No , lithuanian

[Deimy]

French is my third language

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

That's awesome! You know 3 languages then? Lithuanian, then English and French?

English is my 3rd language too! But I am more comfortable in it than my mother tongue because I just read too many books in English.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Anyways, what do you think about my opinion after your explanation?

[Deimy]

❤cause after this my self esteem was very hurted and I am not feeling good as a woman , I was cheated by my ex just a few months before this experience

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

You should not blame yourself. The latest one was an emotional wreck. He needed to handle his things first.

Your ex. Well I don't know anything about that. But move on. Do not hurt your self esteem as a woman be affected thst much by 1 or 2 guys, please.

[Robert_]

He is hoping that you will write