Is something really wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

So sometimes if I’m out I see a random guy and think he’s automatically looking at me. Even if I’ve known them I think they like me and or want to fuck.

[Sour-rose]

No. This just sounds like a thing in ya head that may be causing this

[Asker]

Lol 😂 thanks

[Asker]

This is why I be so oblivious to dues liking me because I’m like nobody really likes me like that

[mayur1598]

Did something happened with you... any traumatising incident?

[Asker]

Sometimes I can seduce them and it’s sometime reciprocated

[mayur1598]

So does that mean you want to them to look at you like that?

[Asker]

Why do you think it’s trauma. It want a man to want me the right way but I also desired

[mayur1598]

Because of your question I thought that...

[Asker]

No just seeing if anyone else has these experiences like they see some one the are horny for

[mayur1598]

Okay... let me know what you conclude...

[Robert_]

It sounds like you are just really horny when going out.

[Asker]

Probably but it’s not intentional

[Robert_]

Do you feel it is harming you?

[Asker]

No just super shy and awkward

[Robert_]

Have you ever had a long term relationship?

[Asker]

No 🥺.

[Robert_]

It might help but I don't think you'll find your guy while clubbing.

[Asker]

Lol I don’t go clubbing. This could be anybody somebody from target. or Home Depot

[Robert_]

Do those random hookups satisfy you?

[Asker]

I don’t like causal sex. I want to be with one person I’m celibate right

[TadCurious]

You're probably super attractive and have been experiencing the male gaze for a long time.

[Asker]

I always got it put in a weird way like in secret or guys wanna say something years later

[Andres77]

sounds like residual from past trauma.

[Asker]

How so

[Andres77]

To me, what you described can be “hyper vigilant” but it can also be paranoia.
If one has a history of abuse this kind of behavior comes out in some.

[Asker]

I haven’t been abused may be abandoned

[Andres77]

That’s still trauma. I’m sorry that happened to you

[Asker]

It’s not like that.