Guys: when you have a crush on a girl coworker, how do you show it?

[Anonymous]

Coworkers are a delicate dance to flirt or not. If you like a girl @ work how do you subtle show it without crossing the line?

[nolabels]

Many, many years ago, I crushed on a girl a few years older than myself at my job.

I was in a position of being able to approach her pretty much at will in the course of my duties.

I did so, hanging around her and flirting my frickin' brains out.

I ended up inviting her to a concert. The date went fine, but I found out the day after the concert that she was married but separated from her husband.

That was the end of things for me.

A month or so later, a woman who worked on the floor somewhat near to my crush apparently was crushing on me. I found her personality to be very appealing, and she was attractive. She invited me to lunch and I'm pretty sure she was hoping for more than lunch. Well, I had a nice lunch and so did she. End of story. Looking back, I should have hit that hard. I'd bet she'd been pretty fun. I'll never know.

[Dkc123]

Our way Direct.. most of us don't play games or send signals like females.

[Asker]

Direct how so?

[Dkc123]

Directly staring or making a move by approaching

[SnowedIn]

I wouldn't/don't. Work crushes and relationships are nightmares. Just no.

[Anonymous]

look at her in eyes couple of times then go in for the move, if rejected oh well move on..

[Asker]

Wow that's bold to make a move. Yes eye contact helps a lot to communicate without words

[Opinion Owner]

i can only do that once in a month its not like i can do that with every girl im too scared to do that