I told my boyfriend I'm a virgin. And he felt sad that he wasn't anymore. And he replied that he was very impressed and that day after day he wants to be a better man to be worthy of a woman like me when the time comes. What he try to say?
Honestly, I don't veiw myself as being unworthy of any women. So either this guy has a low self-esteem or he's just trying to say what he thinks you want to hear.
Do you really want to be with someone that thinks he's unworthy of you? Think about that. Either he's done some bad stuff and feels guilty about it, or he's incredibly insecure, or he's a fucking lair. Either way I have a hard time trusting people like this.
Regardless of what he was trying to say, what he did say was that he's not worthy of you. So who wants to be with a unworthy person? Sure they might pander to you for a while, work hard to prove themselves to you... but trust me over time they eventually realize that they are more than worthy, or will be incredibly insecure about themselves or within the relationship in general. All of which means that all signs pionts toward a toxic relationship.
People who speak of themselves in terms of unworthiness are incredibly insecure people and these types are prone to extremely toxic behaviors. These behavior my start as being mild at first, but over time they become more obsessive or compulsive.
he feels bad for not losing his virginity to you. he regrets sleeping around with women he had no connection with. he wishes he could go back in time and undo his mess so he's making up for it by becoming a better man.
a lot of men get put under some mysterious magic spell the moment they meet the right woman. they'll move heaven and earth to keep the demons away and would be willing to take a bullet for them. strange but true.
If he's telling the truth, then that means he regrets his past decisions to have sex. He recognizes how special it is that you have waited.
I don't know your boyfriend personally and I don't know anything about him. So it's kind of hard for me to say anything more than that.
He seems to have more respect for you after finding out that you're a virgin. He see's you as something special and potentially a good woman so he wants to be as good as he can for you as well.
This could be one of two things. He was legit and wanted to share the first time with you OR he was just saying that to sympathize with you.
Whatever you do, do not make him feel bad or shame him. As long as he stays loyal and faithful to you thats water under the bridge.
I think he thinks of you so highly that he wishes that me could share losing his virginity to you.
How do you know you're his girlfriend, if you're a virgin?
Your boyfriend is quite the bullshit artist.
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