Is this normal behaviour? It’s turning me off?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes, my boyfriend of two years totally turns me off…

Like yesterday for example, we were out at a restaurant and he went to the toilet and then came back and told me he had “had to poo”. Like I wouldn’t dream of saying that to him! Or anyone for that matter.

Also he eats so much sometimes that he can’t have sec because he’s too full. At the weekend we went out for a meal and then had sex and right after he was done he said “I’m going to throw up” which just completely grossed me out.

The thing is, he never used to be like that so now I’m blaming myself. What can I do to get him to be like the old boyfriend who wasn’t a complete Neanderthal?

[MystiKaL]

He is too at ease with you and feels he can say this with you without worrying what your reaction is. Sometimes too much information can be a turn off, so I get you. If it is freaking you out, I would thoroughly advise you let him him to tone it down a little.

[boggboss]

Its called being comfrble just like some wo. en won't let there date or early boyfriend see them without makeup on everyone tries to be the best part of them or what they view as the best bow he is comftble and trusts u

[melanieeeB]

Haha normal, in the beginning he was on his best behavior but now he is comfortable with you and opens up more and I don't know, but I find those two examples not that bad... like not farting infront of each other in the beginning

[Chris_675]

If he's turning you off then you may not be compatible in my opinion. I'm the type who needs to have a strong physical attraction to a woman to the point where she probably couldn't gross me out.

[In_Trance]

you didn't agree on proper boundaries. No going back now

[Asker]

I think I know what you mean but I’ve always said it’s never too late to change things. I need to change my response to these things and make sure he knows it’s not ok

[In_Trance]

good luck with that. changes like this usually create a communication barrier. This could lead to other communication barriers and potentially resentment

[Anonymous]

Maybe he was potraying himself differently and now he is showing his real nature which clearly is not tolerable