Why does he watch all my stories on insta? Every Single one but doesn’t try to talk to me?

[Anonymous]

[MystiKaL]

Maybe he is the nervous type and feels more comfortable watching your stuff on Social Media than actually talk to you. Why don't you message him if you like him?

[Asker]

I did I treat him nice he was a little dry with me on text. I joked around asked him to buy me a chihuahua obviously joking I made it clear

[Anonymous]

Meanwhile im always replying this American DJ’s insta story and he liked each one of my messages 💘

Girl u gotta forget him if he’s not interested. Him being dry should tell it all

[Anonymous]

Why does the girl i like, "like" some of my messages but won't reply to them

[Asker]

Could be 2 things

The first one is she doesn’t want to seem like she likes you she’s not sure if you do and doesn’t want to come off as stupid. Maybe you texted her dry and she just assumed you didn’t like her so a polite way to remove herself from the situation and be nice is liking the message without answering.

The other thing is she is not interested in having a conversation with you.

[Asker]

Tell me more details and I’ll tell you what I think based on what you tell me

[Opinion Owner]

I will occasionally watch her stories, and one of her stories was about how she was just in Jamaica for a wedding. She wasn’t gonna be able to go because of money but her friend/best friend, loaned her the money and is gonna pay her back as she can. Anyway, I asked her what her friend does. Cause I was curious about how rich her friend really is, to not only afford her own ticket and trip but also hers. She “liked” the message and then ignored a reply. Even though it was clearly a question.

Another time she “liked” the message but, didn’t reply was, more of a “non-replyable” message but

[Opinion Owner]

After she posted a story saying “back to reality, home”, I said “yay, you’re back”, she “liked” it but then chose not to reply again. I don’t mind the “liking” but, that’s twice in a row, no reply

[Opinion Owner]

I have another question for you, based on her, but, answer that first before I do

[Asker]

I know it’s not what you want to hear. Each woman acts in different ways I can even be wrong saying this. But I ME am interested in someone I reply back to their texts the only situation I would like your text is to not come off as too nice or stupid in love with you. If your asking her questions and she’s ignoring you maybe she doesn’t like you that way.

There is another option too. It’s a sad reality we live in but some woman play games try to play hard to get. As soon as you cut off their attention they come to you. You have to study her and analyze what type of woman she is. Me I’m the complete opposite I hate games if you don’t give me attention I’ll cut you off for good. Imma read the other one wait

[Opinion Owner]

I actually hope it’s that she’s playing hard to get, because that’s the type of woman I actually prefer. Sexier, lol. Sorry.

Anyway. My other question is, and I’m a little ashamed/nervous asking this but, how do I know if I, and i really stress the quotes here, but “bought” a date with her or not. I guess you’re looking for more explanation but, do how would I know if I just “bought” a date with her or not

[Asker]

Good luck with that cuz these type of woman usually will fuck you up. 😆. Can you answer my question first then I’ll answer yours. 😁

[Opinion Owner]

I think I just did answer it. Like i said, I just prefer women who play hard to get

[Asker]

Where? 😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

I just did

[Asker]

I don’t see it it’s alright thou 🤦🏾‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

It’s plainly out there hun

[Asker]

So what it a no he’s no interested I really can’t see you’re answer maybe it’s the app

[Opinion Owner]

It’s out there hun, you’re just overthinking it.

Anyway, so, the thing with my having supposedly “bought” a date with her, is interesting causeeee, while I wasn’t really like, expecting her to do so, I think she thinks I was trying to buy a date from her.

I recently discovered on her insta that she has a link to a go fund me. It’s for her dog who happens to be really sick. And it needs an ultrasound and or an mri to see what they can do for it. She can’t afford it right now and she’s trying to get people to donate. Seeing as how I have some money I can give, and seeing as how I’ve known her for 10 years, I figured, why not. So, I did. I gave her almost $60. She needs $935 more to get an ultrasound and then will need another 1200 or so for an mri after than, but, when I gave it to her, I wasn’t thinking “hey, I’m gonna get a date out of this” lol. But, when I told her I gave her money for her dog, she said “omg, you’re such an angel, I should take you out sometime soon, and then followed by three hearts”

I’m no dummy I’m not gonna turn it down buttttt, is she essentially an escort here. Did I “buy”, a date?

[Asker]

Overthinking what?

And no you didn’t buy a date if you gave the whole amount okay but 60 is a small contribution. It’s weird hard to tell. She’s hot and cold seems like she’s keeping you as a plan b. Plan a didn’t go well so she decided to give you a chance and go out. She maybe thinks your cute but not 100 percent sure if your the one or as I said she’s playing hard to get. What does your intuition tell you?

[Opinion Owner]

I’d like to know if she’ll think this is a date. She said “hangout” butttt, lots of times “one on one” with the opposite sex, typically means, date. So, I’m not really sure. That’s why I’m like “did I buy a date” lol

[Asker]

Im not answering anything else before. You answer my question 😘😘😘😘 have a good one

[Opinion Owner]

Hun, you’re overthinking it. I answered you.

[Asker]

Overthinking what explain

[Opinion Owner]

I told you I did. Stop overthinking it. Answer me

[Asker]

Explain it again or I’m not answering😁

[Opinion Owner]

Then I’m not answering you again. You are overthinking this

[Asker]

Alright that’s a shit answer. 😁😁😁 bye

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao

[boggboss]

Because he is happy just watching

[Asker]

Does that mean that he is not interested?

[boggboss]

Ask him lol gag can't know are u not intrested because u won't message him

[Asker]

I did I joked around but he seemed kinda dry

[boggboss]

Then maybe he ain't intrested or bad at texting

[Asker]

Last question what if one day he offered to hold my hand during a scary movie. Maybe he felt bad?

[boggboss]

I would assume he likes u from that

[Asker]

It’s confusing so why send mix signals. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[boggboss]

Being a dry texter is not mixed signals lol

[Asker]

But not starting a conversation with me is 😩

[boggboss]

And can also be a sign that he is too shy or scared to do so

[Asker]

Okay 😩thank you my love 😘😘😘

[boggboss]

Good luck

[Anonymous]

He's a stalker? Or just curious.

[Asker]

Does that mean he’s not interested? Yesterday I posted a story at 11 then 10 min later another than 2 min later another he watched all of them

[Opinion Owner]

He probably is interested.

[Asker]

He even offered to hold my hand during a scary movie once. I don’t get why he just doesn’t talk to me

[Opinion Owner]

He's interested.

[Asker]

But my love why doesn’t he do anything?😩😩

[Opinion Owner]

He's probably to shy to make a move, so you might have to be the first one to do that.

[Asker]

I did already I’m nice I start conversation I even followed him on insta. I’m 3 years older than him is that maybe why?