He watches every single one of my insta stories?

[Anonymous]

So I post stuff on my story all the time like memes and motivational stuff. This has happened every single time. Every story I post he sees it every single one. Just yesterday and today I posted a story 16 hrs ago then 11 hrs ago then 5 hrs ago then 2 then 10 min just now and he has watched them. I am just trying to understand if this is just a normal behavior. He doesn’t text me first and only replies to my texts. He follows 1210 people. Why of the 1210 people He is continuously looking at my story. I know everyone is different but if I am not interested in someone I don’t look at their story what they have to post doesn’t interest me. The only reason I would see someone story if it’s because I am attracted to them. I mean I would occasionally see them but not continuously. I was just wondering from the men in this app could it be just a coincidence? What could this mean? If I am looking into it too much let me know. For me it doesn’t make sense please help me.

[Angryfrog]

Im not sure about the term"insta sluts" but Katyalov gave some decent advice.

Check who else he does this to, it will indicate if your different or significant or interchangeable.

His looking at your stories probably to check you out, the more he does it the more your updates will stand out on his feed and so the more he will do it again.

This just tells you he likes the way you look in photos.

If he likes you but is shy, he may overthink your reaction to his comments or reactions and therefore not send anything, but he would be more centred on you and not doing the same for lots of women.

If he likes hot photos he will look at as many hot photos that he can and not care about the text or even the opinion of the girl. That doesn't mean he can't like you because he doesn't know you, as i said he does look past the photo.

Trouble is you have to talk to him either way

[Asker]

Just a question what if I sent him a meme yesterday about being ugly I was just joking around and he knows let me leave that clear he knows I play around a lot he only replies with an emoji. Then I said you laughing at the fact your ugly that was yesterday at 8 until now he hasn’t even seen my text on insta or replied to me. If he liked me wouldn’t he be checking his dms to see if I texted him? If I guy replies hours later what does that mean.

[Angryfrog]

To be fair hours or days? Hours could genuinely be busy but days would suggest less interest. If your dm him and getting minimal response id pull back, if his not going to chase might not mean as much to him

[ZackBan]

Nothing to it. Instagram puts these stories in front of people and we click on them. I see every story posted by a select few of people and not necessarily people I'm attracted to.

You're wasting time reading into this. If you like him see if he wants to go grab a bite or a drink and get to know him. He might also take the lead if he's attracted to you.

[Katyalov]

I see you only want guys opinion but I went through so much of what you are describing here. If a guy is interested in you he will make that clear, thats just the way they are. It could be that he is messing around with other girls. You're not the only one he has his eyes on. Do yourself favor and check out who he follows, most likely you'll see a ton of instasluts and lots of females.

[coachTanthony]

Are you interested in the guy? He might just be shy. Many women like them shy types.

[Asker]

I am. He’s not shy with other girls. He likes their posts never likes mine.

[coachTanthony]

Well he is still a guy and maybe he thinks your hot and is seeing if you will show up in a bikini like Spartan said below.

[Asker]

So does that mean he doesn’t like me then? Because what I’m looking fornos something not shallow. I want him to like me for what I am not for what I look like

[coachTanthony]

Maybe he is shy with you because he really likes you and is sending you a message by looking at your stories. Why not comment on something he posts and see if that puts a spring in his step to make a move. Maybe he's gun shy. We really don't know so I would drop some clues if I were you and see if he bites.

[Asker]

I dropped some already. I liked his posts when I followed him I make the first movendo start a convo. I tease him joke around one day I got him food one day jokingly I even held his hand at the movie theaters during a scary movie. Based on everything that I just toodbyoubehat do you think

[coachTanthony]

Yeah he's not interested. Men who are interested HUNT and they go after what they want. You ain't it from what I can gather here and the stuff you have said.

[Asker]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[FireGodGoesSeeknFire]

I mean I watch every story of women I am "attracted" to in the sense that I would consider them cute, interesting and in my social class.

But, not in the sense that I have a crush on them.

[spartan55]

We don't gaf about inspirational memes and what you ate for dinner last night. We are hoping for a bikini shot.

[JDAC092299]

I just click on everyones stories to get rid of the highlighted bubble I might just be weird tho 🤡🤣

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Dont interprete too much in this. Its probably nothing

[Anonymous]

The things people care about

[siseñor]

stop obsessing 😾