How do I show my interest?

[Anonymous]

Thetr is this man I really like, how do I show him I like him without being creepy? I am really shy person so telling him straight up is not a option. He is older than me and has a child.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If he's taken, you don't, you leave him be.

If he's single, you think about what guys say to women that you think is so pervy that its creepy, and you say something like that to him.

Most men want lewd, honest women, who are blunt, and have no problem blurting out whats going in their head with zero censorship or sugar coating. If a guy isn't interested, he won't bully the woman the way women bully men for flirting, so you have nothing to lose by being a complete perv.

Women who beat around the bush, drop hints, give mixed signals, or make the guy guess, or interpret, or ask a ton of questions, are honestly the worst headache for guys, (second only to gold diggers and sluts when it comes to annoyance). We want her to know she want us, if you act shy or confused about what to say or do or aren't lewd enough, he is gonna think "well I guess she's not that into me."

[Anonymous]

Actions speak longer than words. You can show him you are interested but not say it until he asks your first (if that helps your shyness) or until you feel comfortable enough to say it out loud to him.

[Asker]

LoL how do I show it?

[Opinion Owner]

Texting first, inviting him out, helping with his child, being supportive and kind. Physical actions like touching his hand, back or arm. Making lunch or dinner.
There are a lot of ways to show adoration. I am sure Google would have more suggestions 😄

[Asker]

Thank you for understanding me.

[Opinion Owner]

You're more than welcome 😄
I understand. I was very shy when I was growing up. I had to learn how to give eye contact when people spoke to me and me to them. I also had to learn to accept/like hugs and physical contact.
You can do this, girl! 🥰

[In_Trance]

tell him straight up

[Asker]

Impossible

[In_Trance]

You want results? you need to take action. You sit back and wait; he'll find someone else. Other girls will approach

[Asker]

I am introvert and speaking with him is difficult enough, I dont know how to say, what if he rejects me? Then I can talk to him same way again, it will be really awkward.

[In_Trance]

If you can't talk to him, what do you expect to happen beyond that? Completely irrational