Guys, Why do men refuse to hold each other accountable?

[Anonymous]

I observe the way a lot of different men speak and most of the time, what I notice is that a man could be completely in the wrong about something--whether it be cheating on a woman, committing a crime or anything, and I rarely hear or see one man tell another "hey man you're wrong for that" or "I disagree with you making that decision".

It's almost as if you all are afraid anger one another by telling the other that they're wrong about something, or fear being called "soft" or "a simp" by doing or speaking up for what's right. Am I right?

(PLEASE DO ANSWER THIS QUESTION BASHING WOMEN OR DEFLECTING ONTO WOMEN! I NEED HONEST ANSWERS WITHOUT NEGATIVE EMOTIONAL RESPONSES! I WANT TO KNOW ABOUT MEN, NOT WOMEN)

[Lionman95]

I would say they don´t see the need to do so. I don´t know why but many guys don´t help each other or don´t talk about stuff unless one openly asks the other for help.
A guy could be struggling with something but as long as he doesn´t ask a friend for help none of his friends take action to help him.
Besides this behavior of not bothering until asked to the main reason that many guys don´t want to create a fuss and maybe lose the friendship.
Though I think it´s wrong I do that too from time to time to save myself from additional trouble.

[Kryzo]

Guys usually do criticise their friends in private. We tend to not do that in public. I'm not deflecting this onto women, but from what I've seen, it is a lot more a women's problem than it is men's. Sure some crappy guys are out there. There are also many more similar women.

[Asker]

But I asked about men I didn't ask about women

[Kryzo]

Well it doesn't matter. You can't speak about one without the other.

[Asker]

Yes you very well can. This is the problem with a lot of y'all. Y'all can't answer questions or take accountability without involving the opposite gender. This isn't a women versus men question I asked about men to get a legit answer from your perspectives and you here you are making it about women... you're the problem

[Kryzo]

Because it is a well known idea that most women are horrible at not taking responsibility for their actions. So a woman complaining like this about men is an oxymoron. It is joke.

[Asker]

But what you're failing to comprehend is THIS QUESTION WAS NOT POSTED TO PROVIDE YOU WITH A SPACE TO BASH WOMEN!! I asked a simple question to get male perspective ONLY. What's not clicking? If you want to go bash women, make a My Take or go on some man's question who's doing that. I didn't ask you to tell me how you HATE women I asked a question about MEN ONLY!

[Kryzo]

I never said that I hate women. You seem awfully offended at me for pointing out a simple fact. You can't force me to answer you a certain way. Some men are unaccountable. More women are even more so. That's my answer.

[Asker]

You seem unaccountable

[Kryzo]

Depends on the situation.

[Gent207-2]

Bro Code

Do I meddle in business not mine and risk destroying relationships beyond the one and two?

No - unless abuse or abandonment is involved

[TroyDT2]

I stay in my lane and mind my own business unless someone asks. The exception is if I see an actual assault.

[Anonymous]

I'm responsible for my own words and my own actions. I don't really care about the poor actions and decisions of other unless it impacts myself or my own. In part, it's to be expected, especially on the internet.

[Asker]

Ok but when another man is wrong, would you agree that he's wrong or would you defend his actions.

[Anonymous]

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