A guy I work with is confusing me.
Unless I’m crazy, all signs points out he’s interested.
He’s always complimenting/ flirting with me, winking at me when he sees me, lock and deep eye contact, always smiling, very courteous, caring, when we talk I feel like he’s pushing his chest all the time, he would always lean to talk to me, etc. He also seems curious about me ( asking questions about where I’m from, etc) and he even told me some very deep and personal things that happened to him.
so I decided to reciprocate and just compliment him to see if he’s really interested. Last week, I told him that there was something that I really wanted to ask him, but i don’t know how to say it. He responds by saying : whenever you’re ready let me know ! And winks again.
then after we were done with our convo, he reminds me not to forget about what I wanted to say. And I just tell him that I find him really handsome today.
He replied : Aww that’s so cute, thank you !!
today I see him again at the cafeteria. He starts the conversation again by asking me how my day was, and we were talking a little bit about little things… but he seemed so normal… like saying that I find him handsome didn’t really change anything? Of course he was still smiling, still looking at me in the eyes, etc… but there wasn’t anything else…
im not so sure anymore if he’s just a nice guy?
