Why he is so sensitive to my comments about him and gets hurted easily?

[Deimy]

[inhua]

context would be helpful.

what comments are you making about him? something within his control or something outside of his control?

are you making these comments in front of him? are you making these comments behind his back? are you making these comments in front of other people? do these comments make him look bad? would you be offended if he made the same comments about you?

[Deimy]

I called him tinder swindler that he is like him , I made a joke

[Deimy]

But he is very sensitive to my words

[inhua]

if truthfully he did use you for sex as your other comments suggest, then he has no reason to get upset. the truth is the truth unless that wasn't his intention.

[SnowedIn]

Without more context it's difficult. But part of the answer is that some people, even men are very sensitive to anything. Lots of people are sensitive to any comment or criticism about them. Finally, it's possible your comment was very hurtful.

[Deimy]

I joked that he is like tinder swindler

[SnowedIn]

🤣 That's actually pretty funny.

[Deimy]

Ye because he used me for sex then came back saying he hurted me and he did wrong then I saw him again on Bumble and I shew him his profile but then he got defensive and deleted it xd

[Deimy]

He said : how can you think I am busy with other girls?

[SnowedIn]

He has insecurity issues. You are better off without him. I'm sorry...

[c0mlink]

depending on your relationship with him he might crave your validation or just really care what you think. context would be nice.

[Deimy]

He slept with me 2 times then left me after 2 weeks

[Deimy]

He said that he really likes me

[c0mlink]

Oh. Well, I'm sorry for the rough and short relationship. Sounds like someone who used you for a confidence boost and now doesn't want to hear anything negative.

[aaron210419]

He probably likes you and values your opinion so it hurts him if he thinks you're talking negative about him. And he's probably immature and insecure about himself.

[Anonymous]

Depends on what you said. Stop saying stuff if you know it hurts someone. Bitch

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Context?

[Deimy]

I called him tinder swindler just for the joke and he was angry, he said that he is stupid and I should not call him like that. Thus guy used me for sex, promised me relationship, said he likes me for real now after all that he say he realise what he did , that " he cares about me" .

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Oh, well I guess he can't handle having a mirror held up to himself lol

[Alex8736]

how old is he?

[Deimy]

He is 25

[Alex8736]

sounds like he needs to get out of the house more

[Deimy]

Why you say so