Why does he keep bothering me or am I the sensitive one?

[Anonymous]

We've been talking for 6 months and met twice

He was busy every single weekend and only had time for me for an hour or two on a Sunday

Anyways he finally asked to meet up and a few days later I wasn't well and was in the emergency room, I even took a picture and he still wanted to meet, he said, well you can see and it doesn't hurt right (when I said it obviously did)

Now its really stressful at work and I sent him a polite message saying I'm working non stop & I will be in touch as I'm taking a break from my phone, I'm working like crazy to finish deadlines and things will ease 1st September. I explained i am working 6 days a week, 10-12hours (commission) and 3 days later I have a message from him saying 'hi, hope you're feeling better now?'

I have never met such an annoying human being in my life. He doesn't get the hint and he's really bothering me.

Am I the sensitive one?

[raw_is_war99]

I was in this position in my 20s, I feel like he's inconsiderate about your life but you are inconsiderate about his feelings and that's where it's messy right now. He should understand you have a busy schedule and you will get back to him, but you should also be cool with that he's taking time out of his day to message you. If a guy is being overbearing and you get 20 missed calls and 50 text messages than yea that's retarded if any guy does that. But speaking based on experience, there are times where I apologized to a girl and didn't get any response in return and I find that kind of gutless in my opinion when girls do that shit. If girls want to be treated as human beings and on the same level as men then girls/women should act like it as well. If a girl or a woman really doesn't want to talk to a guy because she doesn't want to seem rude because doesn't he get the hint I don't want to talk to him. Well that's the thing either a) a girl who's busy will say sorry I couldn't text i've been busy! or b) ugh, im purposely not responding to him because he's annoying. Either way, whatever a guy does these days a girl can't stand. That's why I'm tired as hell going after girls, it's exhausting.

[Jamie05rhs]

He checked up on you to see how you were feeling. He was being very kind and considerate. Why are you mad? 🤷

[Asker]

Because he keeps wanting to meet. Despite how I feel

[Jamie05rhs]

Did he say that?

[spartan55]

Get what hint?

[Asker]

Where's your kids?

[spartan55]

I should have known. It seemed like a retarded question.