Help a girl out please. Last week I met this guy on tinder and after talking for a while, he said he likes my vibe and asked to move to instagram. We continued talking and he'd send me random, funny pics (mostly selfies) and vids. Since I'm the type to match my convo partner's energy, I would send him pics back. We also exchanged voice notes. It went on for days and he would usually start the convo again if I didn't reply. I eventually told him along the lines of "I think you're fun and cool. It'd be nice if we can hang out sometime" and he only liked the text. The next day he told me he'll be having three day offs from work and when I asked him if he has any plans, he said he needs to do something first "and then maybe we can hang out". the "maybe" got me like? but I told him "okay. you know where to find me so just hmu when you're free" then we continued talking for a while and he eventually asked if I have any plans on Saturday and I told him my free hours and again, he only liked the message, and then nothing. We talked briefly on Saturday, then he left me on read, and nothing until now (it's Tuesday). Earlier he liked my story but he hasn't texted me. Does this mean he's just not interested in me?
lol this is always the case when I meet girls online, they seem all cool and we get along well, things in common, not texting too much or coming over as needy. But still no one ever wants to hang out in real, always getting excuses. Hm at first it all seems in your case that everything went right but at the end he just quit and ghosts you, I hate when people do that
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You do not smell ripe and needy enough yet.
Something interesting happened on the front end of this for "Hang Out" Time to be secondary to "Right Time".
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Is he fat? If so, maybe that's the reason. He's delaying meeting up because he's afraid you won't like him.
He is probably hiding something about himself.
He's probably busy talking to multiple women
Not sure sorry
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