So last week I plucked up the nerve to tell my crush that I liked him. He absolutely friendzoned me, and that’s fine, but the last couple of days, he has started to say mean things about me, in front of me, when we have been in a group setting at work.
I haven’t said anything to him yet, because it’s absolutely shocked me as it’s so not his character, he’s never, ever said a mean word about me in the time I’ve known him. Colleagues are surprised at the change in him towards me too. I intend to have the conversation with him, but I’m expecting him to deny it as nastiness, he will say he was just joking around, and that I’m overthinking it.
Why would he be mean to someone that has shown him nothing but kindness and care, even before confessing the crush? Even before all this I considered us true friends, but now I just see him as fake? How could a true friend treat another true friend this way?
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Maybe it’s like when you enjoy being friends with a guy then he tells you he wants you and you have no interest in that it can make you feel very uncomfortable or question his motives for being friendly. Maybe he feels this way, you aren’t entitled to another person’s company if he’s not being nice to you he probably really wants you to leave him alone.
Hot tip: you never have to tell someone you like them if the feeling is mutual you will both know just looking at each other.
I absolutely agree. That’s part of the conversation I want to have with him. I’m the one that’s kept some distance, I’m well aware I’ve made the situation awkward, I’m in no way oblivious to that. If he wants room I’m happy to accommodate that, I get the position I’ve put him in isn’t a good one.
I told him because I was sure he felt the same way. 100% sure. Looking at him I knew.
Except I got it all wrong 😂
Some people are assholes. Maybe he shouldn’t even be a friend. Confront him on it. If he won’t stop. Maybe you need to cut him out of your life
If he is a mean person. He probably did you a favor rejecting you