Things go missing, he plays dumb all the time?

[Anonymous]

Weird things show up that I dont recall they are mine or things that have disappeared months ago just show up.

I feel my boyfriend does this to me

But why?

[Noahzaid]

This type of behavior requires a private agent.

how would I know!

I mean If you yourself aren’t sure how would I be then?

[Sparkie460]

Apparently someone likes to play mind games with you.

[Asker]

What did I do to deserve this. I'm trying to find out how to stop this behavior from him. I dont do this to him...

[Sparkie460]

I guess he's still a child since he's playing childish games. Maybe you should start doing it to him so he knows how it feels

[Asker]

I was thinking of doing that too. But I feel things like this it will never end... unless I leave. he's an amazing boyfriend except this what he does... I'm having his kid too. I feel terrible

[Sparkie460]

How long have you been together? Do you feel terrible about having his child?

[Asker]

I sort of do now. We've been together for 3 years... I was actually trying to break up with him 4 weeks before I found out I was pregnant. I remember when I did over text he was trying to understand what went wrong. We really are Un ncombatable I think... but I don't know he's also a guy who treats me good except the playing mind games. Im 31 I dont have time for games smh

[Sparkie460]

How old is he

[Asker]

30 years old

[Sparkie460]

He should be over playing childish games. How far along are you?

[Asker]

A couple of months..

[Sparkie460]

If nobody else has been at your place , he's doing it. Tell him to stop doing it and denying it.

[Asker]

I call him out all the time and he just denies it. Just like I found lashes on the floor by my spot. However I haven't worn lashes in 4 months. So even if they were mine why are they just appearing on the floor? Lol it's weird behavior...

[Asker]

Like I have been looking for lashes and can't find them... now 4 months later they are there on the floor... like come on

[Asker]

He hide my sex toy too I dont get it.

[Sparkie460]

That's really weird. Were they your lashes? What other kind of things happen

[Asker]

My sex toy went missing my sports bra dissapeared and reappeared. Things disappear and reappear like my sports bra was in the laundry then it was in my closet. I feel a lot of gas lighting is happening tbh. I try my best to be there and support him but now it's like is it me? I do suffer from mental illness but I have eyes and dont hallucinate so I don't know.
One time i was wash I'll ng clothes and my detergent went missing (he was at work) i looked everywhere for it. When he came back I found it under clothes in a chair which is weird I don't know if he has someone else here messing with me too I'm just overall paranoid now because of it

[Sparkie460]

Don't take this the wrong way but do you think you might be misplacing things. The laundry detergent thing is what made me ask you. With him being at work , he can't obviously do it.

[Asker]

I know.. but I've been told I'm forgetful but not this much. I say it is half and half. My sex toy? Seriously where could it have gone. I've searched high and low in my room lol I dont take it out either. It's on my night stand lol

[Sparkie460]

It would be hard to miss on your nightstand.

[Asker]

Exactly

[Sparkie460]

Where was he when your toy magically appeared

[Asker]

I do go to work first so...

[Sparkie460]

How long after you leave does he usually leave to go to work

[Summeroflove]

Some people are thieves. If someone will steal. What makes you think they’re above lying?

[spartan55]

Could you be any more vague?