I met this guy online at a muslim matrimonial sight. He lives a mile from me. Started joking around, had some light hearted texted. When i finally asked him his intentions, he said since it was Ramadan routine was super tough and he wanted to wait. I understood and said okay.
Fast forward one week, i realized i knew very little about him and sent him a voice note asking about how long ago he had gotten divorced, about his family and job (mind you normal stuff for our culture and nothing too personal). He joked around and did not even acknowledge my queries let alone answer them.
Its been 2 days and he is still attempting to joke around. He doesn't talk about specifics like hobbies or work. There are another 2 weeks left in Ramadan. I had initially considered riding it out but now am not too sure.
Should i straight out ask him why he avoids specifics or simply wait another 2 weeks as initially planned?
Fast forward one week, i realized i knew very little about him and sent him a voice note asking about how long ago he had gotten divorced, about his family and job (mind you normal stuff for our culture and nothing too personal). He joked around and did not even acknowledge my queries let alone answer them.
Its been 2 days and he is still attempting to joke around. He doesn't talk about specifics like hobbies or work. There are another 2 weeks left in Ramadan. I had initially considered riding it out but now am not too sure.
Should i straight out ask him why he avoids specifics or simply wait another 2 weeks as initially planned?
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