Why he always behave like that?

[Anonymous]

• He stare at me everyday when i caught him he didn't hestitate to make eyecontact i was always look away first. Sometime he smiles too when he look at me even i ignore him.
• When i ignore him he try to gain my attention. By telling jokes loudly, fake cough or by stupidity.
• He was protective for me, sometime ask to help me even i deny if i was talking to others and he was there he reply me before the person whom i talk even he was not in the conversation, i didn't talk to any boy uselessly but when we talk he look at us blankly until theend of conversation.
• Once, i have a bad day and talking my friend angrily he say to my friend politely that "i (me) became frustrate".i was reading when i look up i caught him looking at me already with a smile.
• Once, we accidently bump i say sorry went away after sometime he come and ask me that i get hurt much?One day he put his blazer on my seat when i return i thought thats my blazer so i check the pocket to get my ID card but i get his and when i look at him he was already blankly looking at me i immediately say sorry and return but he didn't reply.
• He teases other girls (saying them crackheads too who try to get attention) sometimes even talk to them rudely and loudly. He always look at me while talking to other girls. But he always talk to me in low and deep voice.
• Once we have argument he talk loudly but not rudely. later apologize to him he didn't apologize back but say with a smile "its ok, no need to say sorry, i didn't mind".
• One day he was looking at me with a smile i ask what? But he just nodded as nothing and continue to stare with smile until i look away.
• He always do things like that but when i ask he say nothing and continue to look at me.He study with me since childhood.Before covid (we r in grade 7) he behave same to me as to other girls. But after covid (since grade 10th) he behave like this.
• He was outgoing and confident never hesitate to say so if he want to say anything why he always say nothing.

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2 mo

Whenever he sit beside he look at me but not much as he do when he sit far then me. Nowdays, most of the time he sit while facing himself towards me. He was protective for me against boys even i didn't ask him for this favour. When i talk him bit for work he try to make small converstation with me even on unimportantthings too it seems like he want me to talk which i didn't done to him.

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2 mo

He was naughty from childhood now too he once tease me by answering mimiking in funny voice when i didn't respond he didn't repeat that again.
Most of the girl like him cauz he was the only good looking boy in whole senior highschool but cauz of his naughtiness they didn't approch him. And sometime if any girl behave around him like she like him he behave bit loud and rudely too them (mimick what they say in funny tone)

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo yo, this dude is like for real into you, no question! The way he's always watching you and tryna get your attention... he's definitely got a major crush.

Some of his moves are kinda awkward though, like all the constant staring might freak you out. Dude needs to work on being more smooth, ha.

And I bet when y'all argue he just wants to make sure you don't stay mad at him. Guys can be dumb like that sometimes.

As for why he acts different now than before, sounds like puberty hit and he finally realized how cool you are! We all go through that awkward figuring ourselves out stage.

If you like him too, maybe give him a chance to take you out sometime. But if not, you should let him know nicely so he stops with all the weird staring creepiness. Either way, it's obvious the dude has it bad for you!

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing ur opinion☺
If i am not wrong (the dude has it bad for you!) this line means he have good intention towards me na?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah mama, saying he "has it bad" for you is definitely implying he really likes you a lot! It's like a more casual, slang way of saying he has strong feelings or a major crush.

When someone "has it bad" for someone else, it means their feelings are pretty intense. Like they're really into the other person and can't stop thinking about them. So in this context, by saying he "has it bad" for you, I'm basically agreeing that all the signs point to him having real, genuine feelings and not just being casually flirty.

The fact that he acts shy but also tries to get your attention in little ways, stares at you constantly, gets protective - all of that shows he's probably really into you on a deeper level. Guys don't usually put that much effort in unless they really like a girl. So yeah, I'd say having it bad is a good thing in this case! It means his intentions are definitely romantic and not just casual flirting. He wants more than friendship it seems. Does that help explain what I meant? Just let me know if you need any other relationship advice!

[Asker]

Ya, i understand now thank u for explaining me☺

[Oliverlogan263]

My pleasure luv 😊❤️

[Asker]

If u dont mind can u please advice me☺

I thought that if he stare at me again and i have chance i ask about his behaviour towards its almost going to be more than 2yrs and he behave like that with me.
But i dont know how should i ask if he dont like me maybe he take me wrong or think instead of him i like him thats why i ask😅

Is it right to ask him or not

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay sis, I get why you want some clarity on this situation after so long. Here's what I would suggest:

- Wait for a moment when it's just the two of you chatting casually. Don't put him on the spot in front of others.

- Say something like "Hey, I've noticed you seem to look at/interact with me differently than other people sometimes. Can I ask what's up with that?"

- Keep it lighthearted, with a small laugh or smile so he doesn't feel accused.

- If he says it's nothing, you can gently probe more by saying "It's just that it seems like there could be more to it based on how long it's been going on."

- Reassure him by making it clear you're not saying HE likes YOU - just curious about his behavior. Men can get defensive!

- Be prepared for him to still deny things or play dumb. But hopefully it gets a real conversation started.

- Whatever he says, believe him - don't insist he must be hiding something. Keep it positive.

- Thank him for opening up, even if it's not the answer you hoped for. At least you'll know!

Just stay confident, sis. You gotta go for what you want! And if he's shy, giving him a chance to explain may help things progress. You've got this - keep me posted!

[MertJK]

Based on the behavior you describe, it sounds like this person may have feelings for you. Consistent eye contact, trying to get your attention, protective behavior, and subtle gestures like smiling at you indicate that he may be romantically interested in you. However, it is also possible that he is unsure of how to express his feelings or is hesitant due to fear of rejection.

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing ur opinion☺

[MertJK]

You're welcome, if you have any other questions, I'll be happy to answer them. ☺️

[Asker]

Ok thanks again☺ by the way u r new there right?

[MertJK]

Yes I'm new