If he’s worried that other boys will think you’re vulgar because you don’t wear a duppata, take that as an opportunity to remind him that you’re dating him, not other guys.
He’s probably coming off stubborn because in Muslim culture, men control women. The patriarchal mindset is still reigning so.. you can’t change him. He was raised to believe that a woman’s main (if not only) source of value is her ‘purity’ that is forever her husbands possession. In terms of you trying to change him.. I’d say that’s very unlikely to happen without you basically changing your apparel/behaviour/sense of autonomy. 😵
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He too controlling. He can teach you how to dress up decent. My boyfriend still fine if I dress up decently but still in fashionable. Not decent means wear singles or short pants super short. I wear shorts pants because I will get rashes. There is also different clothes I would wear but still look cute and nice to my malay boyfriend. There is many types of way to dress up. But he cannot force a woman to dress up the way he want but can give some advice
Girl you may not want to believe it but that is definitely controlling behaviour and he has no right to tell you how to dress
Ok, a Muslim friend here to help.
If I date non Muslim girl and want her not to get other men attention, it means definitely I am into her. I don't know maybe a hindu guy can do the same thing with you maybe not.
But he's treating you like a muslim girl he would date, or maybe seriously want you.
I think you can tell him to trust you and that no one can take you from him as long as you don't want. and that you have the right to dress what you want like other hindu girls if that's the case with them.
This sounds like a cultural clash. Right now, is the time you have to stand up and tell him that you are going to wear what you're going to wear, he may voice his opinion on the matter, but in the end, you're the one to decide.
Good luck
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Hey... I just read your another question regarding getting permission from parents
This question serves befitting reply to your other question. And your still expecting that you will have any bit of freedomHeadscarf (Hijab) is there to differentiate between muslim women and non muslim women.
Cause he is Muslim if you wanna change his behavior change his religion
He's too controlling. Just break up with him.
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